combat
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I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 10 months and everything has been good (no fights/arguments, etc). It's my first real relationship to speak of.
But the last couple of weeks all I've been thinking about is that we should break up. I've also been heavily crushing on another girl I know for a while now, so much so that even when I'm with my girlfriend I constantly think about the other girl. I don't think it's really fair to her for me to be wanting another girl while I'm with her, so I suppose that's another reason. Maybe it's even the main reason I've been wanting to break up. I really don't even know. I can't really explain it, I just don't want to be with her anymore.
I know that the right thing to do is to break up. Stringing her along is unfair. I just hate the thought of breaking her heart. She is such a sweetheart, I dread hurting her like this. But my own heart just isn't in this relationship anymore.
Any advice on how to do this the "right" way? I know there's no way to go about it that won't hurt, but what's the most non-douchebag way to approach it? I couldn't do it to her before she finished her semester finals and I can't do this to her over Christmas, but after new year's I think I need to pull the trigger. I really dread doing this.
But the last couple of weeks all I've been thinking about is that we should break up. I've also been heavily crushing on another girl I know for a while now, so much so that even when I'm with my girlfriend I constantly think about the other girl. I don't think it's really fair to her for me to be wanting another girl while I'm with her, so I suppose that's another reason. Maybe it's even the main reason I've been wanting to break up. I really don't even know. I can't really explain it, I just don't want to be with her anymore.
I know that the right thing to do is to break up. Stringing her along is unfair. I just hate the thought of breaking her heart. She is such a sweetheart, I dread hurting her like this. But my own heart just isn't in this relationship anymore.
Any advice on how to do this the "right" way? I know there's no way to go about it that won't hurt, but what's the most non-douchebag way to approach it? I couldn't do it to her before she finished her semester finals and I can't do this to her over Christmas, but after new year's I think I need to pull the trigger. I really dread doing this.