Hi,
I was just wondering if anyone suffering from this condition or anyone who has experienced this condition has ever found happiness in someone else.
I was just wondering because I used to suffer really bad from social phobia and had a form of select mutism when I was younger.
I have "broken through" my anxieties around people but I still can't find happiness it seems. I am apparently fixated with finding love at the moment.
I recently joined a dating site and have recieved a surprising amount of messages, the only thing is I don't message them back even if I find them attractive or they have the same interests as me as I still think I will be worthless in their eyes. I have girlfriends who always tell me that they love me because I'm "SUCH A NICE GUY" but then they go out with some complete douches! and don't give me the time of day.
I only wonder how I'll ever be happy because this is all I can think about. I am a quiet guy, but I am romantic , I love adventuring and embracing life, I can be funny and charming but I need my time apart aswell and this seems to be the hardest part.
Don't really know why I'm ranting but all I seem to want is a shy, nice girl who understands the pressures of this condition, small or large!
anyone like that out there?
I was just wondering if anyone suffering from this condition or anyone who has experienced this condition has ever found happiness in someone else.
I was just wondering because I used to suffer really bad from social phobia and had a form of select mutism when I was younger.
I have "broken through" my anxieties around people but I still can't find happiness it seems. I am apparently fixated with finding love at the moment.
I recently joined a dating site and have recieved a surprising amount of messages, the only thing is I don't message them back even if I find them attractive or they have the same interests as me as I still think I will be worthless in their eyes. I have girlfriends who always tell me that they love me because I'm "SUCH A NICE GUY" but then they go out with some complete douches! and don't give me the time of day.
I only wonder how I'll ever be happy because this is all I can think about. I am a quiet guy, but I am romantic , I love adventuring and embracing life, I can be funny and charming but I need my time apart aswell and this seems to be the hardest part.
Don't really know why I'm ranting but all I seem to want is a shy, nice girl who understands the pressures of this condition, small or large!
anyone like that out there?