Nicholas
Well-known member
Real friends. How many times have you heard those two words? Especially when something bad happens to you and you have no one to rely on, no one to talk with, no one that cheers you up. Or when people leave you alone, even those you thought were "friends". Then you will hear someone say "If they are real friends, they'll accept you! If they are real friends, they'll never leave you alone! They did so and so? Then they weren't real friends!"
But where the fukk are real friends? Who the hell has ever met real friends?
It seems some people were very lucky, and they met real friends when they were young enough, one or two, but real friends.
But is there anyone who's met real friends in their 20's, 30's, 40's? Where and how? Do I need to accept the fact I might never have real friends? What if I REALLY need real friends?
I once used to think that it was much easier to find good friends online. I was wrong. A good friendship can't work online, you need to meet in real life too. And when you keep that in mind, you'll realize that it's not easy to find good online friends that also live near enough in real life.
I'm tired of the usual shit, "Go to the gym, do something, take a course, just to meet more people". Ok, but who has actually found real friends that way? Not acquaintances. Real friends.
Do you think you would have the same SA or depression if you had real friends? I don't think so. But where and how to find real friends seems to be a question that has no answer.
But where the fukk are real friends? Who the hell has ever met real friends?
It seems some people were very lucky, and they met real friends when they were young enough, one or two, but real friends.
But is there anyone who's met real friends in their 20's, 30's, 40's? Where and how? Do I need to accept the fact I might never have real friends? What if I REALLY need real friends?
I once used to think that it was much easier to find good friends online. I was wrong. A good friendship can't work online, you need to meet in real life too. And when you keep that in mind, you'll realize that it's not easy to find good online friends that also live near enough in real life.
I'm tired of the usual shit, "Go to the gym, do something, take a course, just to meet more people". Ok, but who has actually found real friends that way? Not acquaintances. Real friends.
Do you think you would have the same SA or depression if you had real friends? I don't think so. But where and how to find real friends seems to be a question that has no answer.