Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

[Phoenixx]

Sounds fun, at least there was no humiliating action behind it. Like you, I have been kidnapped by my friends. It occured back in sixth grade and my friends were trying to get me to approach my crush and tell her how I felt. Of course, I said no, so they found it within themselves to pick up a hula hoop, trap me in and surround me so there was no hope of escape and forcibly walk me to her. Then, one of my friends decided to skip the whole walk and yell, as loud as he could, that I liked her. I then closed my eyes and tried to wish myself away, but apparently she didn't hear because she never approached me about it and neither did anyone else. So, I guess, I got lucky!
But, I still wish I was there to see you get carried away, fireman-style. Please tell me someone took pictures of that and, if so, could you please post them?

^ If I had friends that did that to me, I would probably be mad for a very long time because I'd be so humiliated. Good thing you got lucky though!

THANKFULLY, no one took any pictures. *phew* I was actually worried about that the minute I got picked up.

 

[Beatrice]

It's my birthday and I'll cry if I want to, cry if I want to, cry if I want tooooooo!

 

[userremoved]

I cant compete with my friends in conversation. If any women enter the picture they just dominate the conversation and Im lucky if I can get a word in. I didnt even get a chance to introduce myself to this girl tonight since one of them was too busy being charismatic and drawing all the attention his way. Whats the point of me even going out if this is what I have to go up against every time? I cant win ::

 

[AsTimeBurns]

I feel that I'm really too old now to be still getting spots. This annoys me.

 

[Kiwong]

On top of the world about slip on a banana

 

[Rembrandt Broam]

I went to a movie by myself and I was the only one in the theatre.

I've nearly achieved that once. I was sitting alone in the movie theatre, the lights had gone down, the trailers had started to play, I was sure I owned that theatre...and then the door opens and a couple of guys walk in.

 

[Kiwong]

I went to an Australian film called Wolf Creek. There were only three people left in the end. A noisy group of young people got spooked and left half way through.

 

[Vampayah88]

How do you break up with someone without telling them the exact reasons? I can't tell him I'm not attracted to him and that he knows sh1t about how to act with a gf, that I don't feel like he puts much effort into actually making me want to be with him, that he never really does anything nice for me..I could go on and on.
I just can't lie to myself anymore and pretend everything is ok. When I would pull back and try to tell him i just cant be with him, hed ask me WHY and say that he just doesn't understand, I could never tell him the true reasons, or all of them.
How do I go about this without losing his friendship? he's the only good friend I have.

 

[Dead_on_Arrival]

Sorry to here this, but if you feel so strongly about these things honesty is the only way forward. The most important thing is to stay calm, be somewhere neutral and make him understand how much you don't want to loose him as a friend. It may take some time for him to get over it but if you are honest he will come round again as a friend.

 

[gazelle]

I so utterly detest it when a girl who's the same age as me or maybe even younger calls me by "sweetie".::

 

[MrJones]

How do you break up with someone without telling them the exact reasons? I can't tell him I'm not attracted to him and that he knows sh1t about how to act with a gf, that I don't feel like he puts much effort into actually making me want to be with him, that he never really does anything nice for me..I could go on and on.
I just can't lie to myself anymore and pretend everything is ok. When I would pull back and try to tell him i just cant be with him, hed ask me WHY and say that he just doesn't understand, I could never tell him the true reasons, or all of them.
How do I go about this without losing his friendship? he's the only good friend I have.

ALERT!: I have absolutely no idea about any kind of relationships, never been in one, so you can ignore this comment

If he is really your friend and cares about how you feel he has to understand that you're not happy with what you have. If he is special to you, tell him, but tell him also in which way he is important to you. You can love someone without that meaning something more than a friendship. Good friendships can be something beautiful and maybe even more difficult to find than a partner.

 

[BlackPuma]

PIZZA!!!

I didn't go then with "friends", but I've been in the Nederlands twice and I have to say that I love it ::

If I go again someday I know where to go first

We'll make it nice. Pizza, movies, attempt at global domination.. it'll be a blast. ::

 

[MrJones]

We'll make it nice. Pizza, movies, attempt at global domination.. it'll be a blast. ::

I think it's funny how so many people in this site is thinking about global domination.....

*sinister laugh + tenting fingertips*

 

[Vampayah88]

Thanks for the advice guys. I really am in deep **** now lol. It's my fault though, because of my loneliness and other stupid motives I let this go too far, even when I knew smth just didn't feel right.

 

[Rembrandt Broam]

That's one of the most wrong and stupid things I've read in a long time.

 

[BlackPuma]

My mom has this annoying habit where she'll want help with something, but doesn't ask for it. Then later in the day/evening she'll go absolutely berserk because nobody helped her and what she tried to do failed.

In the past I would feel extremely guilty for it. But now I just shrug it off. It's not like I can read minds (not in a telepathic sense, anyway). I simply refuse to respond the aggressive behavior of any kind when I did nothing out the ordinary in a negative sense.

I have the feeling she'll do it today..

 

[KiaKaha]

Getting my wisdom teeth pulled tomorrow AND an interview for social sciences papers I hope to study at uni.. I just hope I dont get the two mixed up..,boy would that be awkward..

 

[userremoved]

How do you break up with someone without telling them the exact reasons? I can't tell him I'm not attracted to him and that he knows sh1t about how to act with a gf, that I don't feel like he puts much effort into actually making me want to be with him, that he never really does anything nice for me..I could go on and on.
I just can't lie to myself anymore and pretend everything is ok. When I would pull back and try to tell him i just cant be with him, hed ask me WHY and say that he just doesn't understand, I could never tell him the true reasons, or all of them.
How do I go about this without losing his friendship? he's the only good friend I have.

Sorry Im a little late. But I guess you could just say "It's not working out and I think we should separate"? He's most likely gonna ask for a reason anyways unless he really just doesnt care and is like ok.

Btw, it may just be me, but I dont think its really possible to go back to being friends with someone after being in a romantic relationship with them. Friends---->Lovers yeah, but Lovers---->Friends I cant see it. You might just have to bite bullet on this one if you really want out. =\

 

[FriendlessGirl]

Its so strange, I'm tired and I want to sleep but I just can't. I think its because of the fever.
@ShyKiwi
Good Luck with both tomorrow. I'm pretty sure you won't mix those up lol

 

[BiWinning]

My mind has now distorted everything into something negative. I'm also feeling paranoid about certain things. I'm just not cut for social events. I shall stay at home next time.

Aw, you talking about the festival?
I guess I can't say anything positive because that'd make me the biggest hypocrite ever ::