MikeyC
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People do understand, even if they're not local friends. If you're continuing to feel depressed, seeing a professional might be the answer. I hope you feel better soon.
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MikeyC
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singing-love
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After my first two exams today I'm still alive so I can't complain.
BlueDays
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^I may not be as smart as you, but I am a good listener if you need to rant to someone my inbox is at your disposal. :thumbup:
^Yay, singing-love
erfect: I love the relief after nerve-wracking things like that are over.
My new doctor won't stop nagging me to have a personal procedure I don't want to have.:thumbdown:
I wish people of authority did not intimidate me so much that it prevents me from being able to tell them sternly enough to respect my wishes. :sad:
MikeyC
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I'm guessing it's a pap smear or something really invasive. If you don't want it, you're not obliged to go ahead with it. Stick to your guns.
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
Friday, March 7th, 2014, 2:55 AM: I cook the perfect frozen pizza.
It's all blue Mondays from here.
It's all blue Mondays from here.
BlueDays
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^Yes, but how do I make the doctor listen without offending them or making them think that I am an idiot? It boils down to not wanting this new doctor to think anything bad about me.:sad:
BlueDays
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^Can't sleep then, Fountain? Or are you normally a night owl?
I don't get how the amount of toppings vary for the same type of frozen pizza, made by the same company!?
h: You think they would invent factory machinery that drops the same amount of pineapple on each frozen Hawaiian Pizza. But no, one of the companies Hawaiian pizzas may have 10 pieces of pineapple on one pizza and then another will be completely covered in them.
First world mysteries, but still puzzling! :bigsmile:
MikeyC
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The doctor shouldn't get offended when you refuse a pap smear. Even if your doctor is male, they should realise the invasiveness of the procedure and not force you or hate you for refusing. If they hate you, they're a terrible doctor.
BlueDays
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^My last doctor did not get why I did not want to do it he got the thingy out that they use and gave me a graphic demonstration of how its used and I just wanted the ground to open up and swallow me!! lol
I guess because they are doctors and deal with peoples private bits all the time they just are not able to grasp the concept because they are so jaded by experience.:idontknow:
Thanks Mikey.
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
^Can't sleep then, Fountain? Or are you normally a night owl?
I don't get how the amount of toppings vary for the same type of frozen pizza, made by the same company!?
You think they would invent factory machinery that drops the same amount of pineapple on each frozen Hawaiian Pizza. But no, one of the companies Hawaiian pizzas may have 10 pieces of pineapple on one pizza and then another will be completely covered in them.
First world mysteries, but still puzzling! :bigsmile:
I'm a night owl, a rebel.
Totino's are pretty good as far as topping-distribution. They're small, so I guess there's less surface area to mess up. You just need to drop that zero pizza and get with the hero pizza.
MikeyC
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They do deal with private parts all the time, but doctors with any kind of humanity should realise that it's uncomfortable for some people. I hope you get out of doing it.^My last doctor did not get why I did not want to do it and got the thingy out that they use and gave me a graphic demonstration of how its used and I just wanted the ground to open up and swallow me!! lol
I guess because they are doctors and deal with peoples private bits all the time they just are not able to grasp the concept because they are so jaded by experience.:idontknow:
Thanks Mikey.
BlueDays
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^ ah, I will Google that brand and see if we have here, thanks :thumbup:I'm a night owl, a rebel.
Totino's are pretty good as far as topping-distribution. They're small, so I guess there's less surface area to mess up. You just need to drop that zero pizza and get with the hero pizza.
PerseverareJasmine
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I've recently had to let go of something I've been holding on to. It hurt at first, but I'm starting to realize maybe its for the best. You can't force things to happen that aren't meant to happen. Still, I wonder if it would have ever worked out. Maybe I imagined the whole thing in my head like some kind of fantasy, or maybe there was some truth to what I was feeling, even if it was only a glimmer of truth. I doubt I'll ever know though, so I just have to accept it and try to move on.
Odo
Banned
The dating ads on this site are endlessly fascinating to me.
The latest one I've been getting actually manages to not be Asian, and it features a smorgasbord of approachably attractive 20something year old Aryan females begging me to find happiness staring into their perfect girl-next-door smiles forever. But then I look at the age categories and realize that once you turn 35, you're no longer in the same category as these girls and are now obligated to date someone your age or older. Sorry ladies!
The fact that market research is actively defining the parameters of human relationships, and the fact that people are actually buying into this sort of thing is why the Internet is so terrifying... it's the subtle, written-off things like that that hit me the hardest.
The latest one I've been getting actually manages to not be Asian, and it features a smorgasbord of approachably attractive 20something year old Aryan females begging me to find happiness staring into their perfect girl-next-door smiles forever. But then I look at the age categories and realize that once you turn 35, you're no longer in the same category as these girls and are now obligated to date someone your age or older. Sorry ladies!
The fact that market research is actively defining the parameters of human relationships, and the fact that people are actually buying into this sort of thing is why the Internet is so terrifying... it's the subtle, written-off things like that that hit me the hardest.
PerseverareJasmine
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I'm not much of a touchy-feely person, but sometimes I wish that I could just be held, especially when I'm feeling alone. It'd be nice to be held in someone's arms sometimes.
MollyBeGood
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I have a big black fog covering everything I do, think and feel. I suppose it is depression, I have had it for so long, it just feels like a part of me now. I forget how it is to be without it. Well sometimes when it lifts I am so amazed at how beautiful the world is. It is really unfair to live like this. I have to find a way to get out of this fog. I deserve better. I don't deserve this.
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
I fear swimming may be worse than sinking. ha ha
MikeyC
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I am an affectionate person, so being held in someone's arms is endlessly appealing to me.
I do know what you mean, though. Having that social support there is quite effective in getting through negative situations, so having someone simply being there is enough to know you have that support and friendship you need to persist.
The man that gets to hold you will be one lucky man, anyway.
I'm sorry, April. It's amazing that using a black fog/clouds as the metaphor for depression is so widespread, so everyone must feel the same about it.
You are 100% right that you don't deserve this. I'm always available for a chat if you need it.