I can see where the comments are mostly being directed at.
I often get the feeling that people don't like admitting or thinking about things too much because the harsh truths about the world makes us come to some kind of realization about the way things really are. If you don't care about looks - then that's fine, but the rest of the world does. The point of all this is not to expose insecurity or to be cruel - or to force conformity... but I seriously think that sometimes people just want to live in a safe little bubble that coddles and protects at any expense - looks do matter - in more ways than people want to really admit - in the real world and on here. Personally, I think it is more damaging to not acknowledge and discuss heated topics like this - because if we did, then we would have to actually think about everyone instead.
Jaysus you're like a dog with a bone. You've offended a lot of people, made personal attacks on the mods, contradicted yourself three times by my counting and now you want to blame the man and the system, dude you have a massive chip on your shoulder and you need to give up trying to hang your insecurities on others. Furthermore you need to consider the fact that is you that is uncomfortable with a bit of bleedin' peace. I think you're a very angry man and I know full well you'd talk the ears off all of us with any excuse to argue about anything. I think you'd be wise to leave this one lye though.