Smokeringz
Well-known member
Perfectionism, does anyone else whip themselves mentaly when they dont succeed?
My view is queit simple on the subjet, as I used to be a perfectionist (and I still am to a degree) if I am to settle for goals and love my goals that are lower, than I will attain these goals and feel good. But if I am to think on the opposite end, then I would be thinking greedy and wasting my time Beacuse for one if you set yourself an impossible goal that you'll never reach then you will keep trying for this goal. Example: I want to run two hours A day, I cannot do this now. If I continued to do this for a few day and kept on the pattern of perfetionism than I would quit. But if I made resonable goals then I would eventualy reach the two hours in time, 40 minutes a day for two weeks then an hour a day, then maby I'll try for an hour an a half who knows.
If anyone else has perfectionism thoughts lets hear them.
My view is queit simple on the subjet, as I used to be a perfectionist (and I still am to a degree) if I am to settle for goals and love my goals that are lower, than I will attain these goals and feel good. But if I am to think on the opposite end, then I would be thinking greedy and wasting my time Beacuse for one if you set yourself an impossible goal that you'll never reach then you will keep trying for this goal. Example: I want to run two hours A day, I cannot do this now. If I continued to do this for a few day and kept on the pattern of perfetionism than I would quit. But if I made resonable goals then I would eventualy reach the two hours in time, 40 minutes a day for two weeks then an hour a day, then maby I'll try for an hour an a half who knows.
If anyone else has perfectionism thoughts lets hear them.