grapevine
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So today he has realized that he can't stay here. Hes come to the conclusion his mental health and all of that cant be maintained on his own. (no kidding!)
But the main thing that happened the last few days or more is that him himself have gone into psychosis. Something that hasnt really happened to this degree for 10 years ago.
So what he did is in Australia we got a one-off stimulus money for people on welfare. And he wont tell me how much he spent but he then goes and spends more than ever from what i gather all on meth. As he was going all anxious from the thought of moving and the virus. He even read something about meth being a cure for corona virus lol.
So in his words - he smoked alot on meth in 3 weeks.
So i cant even remember the last few days of him when ive been in contact as ive been busy having to help my father cementing. But everytime i was in contact with him, he was terribly unwell and would say things or act bad towards me and it would hurt and after id end up crying and in emotional pain with anxiety attacks. And the new thing is ive started experiencing scary panic attacks too. I thought i was having a heart attack on and off during the past weeks. They were so scary. But im normal now.
Last night he was scared and acting all weird more than usual and i was messaging him. Comforting him. U know i do that, and he then just leaves and shuts u off and thats that. U dont hear back.
And he has all this stuff to do with online where he has always had delusions of grandeur and paranoia. He talks about how something happened to him now tho. That he was possessed by the devil and that he had an awakening and that he can either be love of death or something and then the other night was messaging me about not going on his youtube page because one account led to death and the other to love and it was dangerous the dead one because it could kill people who watched it.
Now i have genralized anxiety disorder. Its been hard enough this outbreak and dealing without the limited social contact i had that helped get me out of depression. But now to not even be able to rely on him as my only other contact really really hurts.
So this morning i sent him a few photos of the cementing and gardening ive been doing. I thought showing him and explaining the photos so they would trigger some weird thing in his mind (because last night he rang the home phone twice because i sent him a photo of the pink sunset at mine and he had to ring up because he thought it was something to do with stranger things on his youtube account and the upside down world or something idk).
So i send my photos of what ive been doing lately at home and he responds like always with good and my name. Knowing he never really looks or reads anything ive sent him for 4 years anyway. But you know hes really ill atm.
He basically this morning asks me if we want to meet up. So i say okay i have to post a letter today, and meet up the place we had met up for the past few weeks a few times as its secluded and there are seats at 1.5 distance away.
And his response was, 'yeah i dont know'. even tho he asked the question in the first place. And then i answered with are u okay to drive? and his reponse was he needs to get his break pads done still.
But it was after that, that made me feel horrific.
It was just ' hey, goodluck' and 'i gotta do my things' and goodbye' and that was it.
Usually he would put a love heart or something after and he didnt. Just rudely cut off with no explanation.
So i write back that wasnt very nice and express myself.
And for 2 and a half hours endure an intense crying anxiety filled depressive attack that went on and on and on.
When i finally get myself together enough to get get on with my day and decide i needed a hot shower, the phone rings and its him. He apologises to me. And i tell him how it made me feel. But hes not well still and he says about him moving which wasnt what we were even talking about. And how he doesnt want to and stuff and then doesnt want to go for a walk with me and then says hell ring up in the night sometime.
He tells me that on the messenger that he talked this morning that its not him anymore and its a bad account and he wanted me to delete it.
So i say ur new account then, tell me what it is so i can contact u. And he tells me he needs to go off online for a while.
So like most of the time but worse now because hes made himself ill that i cant even contact him, the one contact friend i had.
I realised that this morning when i expressed myself. He hadnt even looked at that at all. There is nothing i can do or say as i have no means to communicate. In this pandemic my close familair has gone.
Its been really hard.
But the main thing that happened the last few days or more is that him himself have gone into psychosis. Something that hasnt really happened to this degree for 10 years ago.
So what he did is in Australia we got a one-off stimulus money for people on welfare. And he wont tell me how much he spent but he then goes and spends more than ever from what i gather all on meth. As he was going all anxious from the thought of moving and the virus. He even read something about meth being a cure for corona virus lol.
So in his words - he smoked alot on meth in 3 weeks.
So i cant even remember the last few days of him when ive been in contact as ive been busy having to help my father cementing. But everytime i was in contact with him, he was terribly unwell and would say things or act bad towards me and it would hurt and after id end up crying and in emotional pain with anxiety attacks. And the new thing is ive started experiencing scary panic attacks too. I thought i was having a heart attack on and off during the past weeks. They were so scary. But im normal now.
Last night he was scared and acting all weird more than usual and i was messaging him. Comforting him. U know i do that, and he then just leaves and shuts u off and thats that. U dont hear back.
And he has all this stuff to do with online where he has always had delusions of grandeur and paranoia. He talks about how something happened to him now tho. That he was possessed by the devil and that he had an awakening and that he can either be love of death or something and then the other night was messaging me about not going on his youtube page because one account led to death and the other to love and it was dangerous the dead one because it could kill people who watched it.
Now i have genralized anxiety disorder. Its been hard enough this outbreak and dealing without the limited social contact i had that helped get me out of depression. But now to not even be able to rely on him as my only other contact really really hurts.
So this morning i sent him a few photos of the cementing and gardening ive been doing. I thought showing him and explaining the photos so they would trigger some weird thing in his mind (because last night he rang the home phone twice because i sent him a photo of the pink sunset at mine and he had to ring up because he thought it was something to do with stranger things on his youtube account and the upside down world or something idk).
So i send my photos of what ive been doing lately at home and he responds like always with good and my name. Knowing he never really looks or reads anything ive sent him for 4 years anyway. But you know hes really ill atm.
He basically this morning asks me if we want to meet up. So i say okay i have to post a letter today, and meet up the place we had met up for the past few weeks a few times as its secluded and there are seats at 1.5 distance away.
And his response was, 'yeah i dont know'. even tho he asked the question in the first place. And then i answered with are u okay to drive? and his reponse was he needs to get his break pads done still.
But it was after that, that made me feel horrific.
It was just ' hey, goodluck' and 'i gotta do my things' and goodbye' and that was it.
Usually he would put a love heart or something after and he didnt. Just rudely cut off with no explanation.
So i write back that wasnt very nice and express myself.
And for 2 and a half hours endure an intense crying anxiety filled depressive attack that went on and on and on.
When i finally get myself together enough to get get on with my day and decide i needed a hot shower, the phone rings and its him. He apologises to me. And i tell him how it made me feel. But hes not well still and he says about him moving which wasnt what we were even talking about. And how he doesnt want to and stuff and then doesnt want to go for a walk with me and then says hell ring up in the night sometime.
He tells me that on the messenger that he talked this morning that its not him anymore and its a bad account and he wanted me to delete it.
So i say ur new account then, tell me what it is so i can contact u. And he tells me he needs to go off online for a while.
So like most of the time but worse now because hes made himself ill that i cant even contact him, the one contact friend i had.
I realised that this morning when i expressed myself. He hadnt even looked at that at all. There is nothing i can do or say as i have no means to communicate. In this pandemic my close familair has gone.
Its been really hard.