xLindziex
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Lack of self confidence for the most part. For the past 4-5 years I've had terrible acne, so that contributed to my confidence level in negative ways.
Obsessed with someone?
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Lack of self confidence for the most part. For the past 4-5 years I've had terrible acne, so that contributed to my confidence level in negative ways.
Tiercel
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Like I said, as much as I yearn for female companionship I still limit my exposure to them (whether online or in Real Life). Because unrequited love, silly infatuation, and ultimately rejection have always been hard pills for me to swallow.
The only way I obsess over men is when it comes to music. But that is always less of an obsession and more of a profound respect and appreciation.
Littlewilly
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Yes i've bin there & i'm still there but my situation (obsession with sum1) has lasted many many years & its far 2 embarrasing 4 me 2 talk about along with my general anxt & wen i realising that its just a crush & in that time there i think there have bin females who have shown an interest in me (I think). It has probably bcum simply 2late.::
:In my case, I don't think I've really been obsessed with someone for a long time now, I just tend to get 'interested' and think of various guys at various stages, that's all. Not getting my hopes up high that some guy would suddenly declare his undying love for me, has never happened before and don't see it happening now.
Im rather obsessed with someone right now
I have a feeling that you are in a relationship when you use a "
" so I am quite sure he is the same with youAutonomousAutomaton
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I have felt the exact same thing. Luckily, she felt the same way about me back. For several months I honestly could not go 30 minutes without thinking about her. It was almost torture when I wasn't with her. It might be unhealthy, but when we were together I was incredibly happy. That kind of crazy obsessive love cannot go on forever though. The passion was very, very high for several months, maybe even a year, but slowly decreased after that. Which is actually probably a good thing.
Iseesky
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Yes, I tend to get obsessed with certain people. Not creepy obsessed...Just curious, I guess. Especially guys from years ago that I used to talk to a lot but lost contact with. Like when SAF (was that what it was called?) shut down. Some people didn't join back up, or...If they did they went with another username.
lilmutegirl
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I would say I'm pre-occupied with someone...I was actually dating a guy that I really liked in high school (we were 24 when we dated) when I met my now ex-husband. The ex-husband insisted at the time that we become boyfriend and girlfriend, even though I specifically said I didn't want a boyfriend. Because of my SA I have trouble asserting myself, so I caved pretty quickly, stopped talking to my high school crush, and I regret it all the time. As a result, I have elevated the crush, and think pretty highly of him. I recently saw him at our 10-year reunion, and that reinforced my crush on him, though I realize that the guy in my head is probably very different from the real person.
Yes. 3 years i've lost loving her. i consider myself a man of brain, not heart. if i were just my heart, i would be dead already. but no. my reason cames first that my heart, and because of that i'm a miserable person. i love her but i cannot be with her, just because. She's not my ideia of perfect woman. don't get me wrong. she's beautiful and kind, but there are many aspects in her personality that damages her in my eyes. This way is probably better. Be alone. just casual meetings with different womens. just live my life without that attachment. sorry the bad english
emmasma
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Yes!
For me it is worse because it is another woman and I am married (to a man) with kids. She is also way out of my league. I work with her many times a week and every time I start to ease up is starts all over when i see her. When I see her in real life it seems weird and I wonder if she can tell.
For me it is worse because it is another woman and I am married (to a man) with kids. She is also way out of my league. I work with her many times a week and every time I start to ease up is starts all over when i see her
. When I see her in real life it seems weird and I wonder if she can tell.
lyricalliaisons
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Yes, my entire life I have gotten obsessions over people. For years, it would be on people I somewhat knew, but once I hit my teens, it became focused more on celebrities & has stayed that way luckily. People find that creepy, but I still think it's better to obsess over fictional characters or people on tv than people in real life. It makes me feel less odd lol.
JamesSmith
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Yes, and I believe this happens to SAD sufferers because we don't have as many relationships as other people, so we cling on to any bit of connection to a human being that we get.
kihira
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Obsessed? This word carries negative weight and leads to an assumption that its unhealthy. Captivated? Immersed? the thesaurus isn't helping much. I see it as a positive internal force that stokes inner places that are cold and forgotten and drives away unwelcome gloom. Yes, I am experiencing this unworded feeling.
coyote
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Obsessed? This word carries negative weight and leads to an assumption that its unhealthy. Captivated? Immersed? the thesaurus isn't helping much. I see it as a positive internal force that stokes inner places that are cold and forgotten and drives away unwelcome gloom. Yes, I am experiencing this unworded feeling.
Is it me? I'm sorry.
Let's talk privately.