Anxy
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My friends hate me, because I left them for another friend. Simply because I had much more in common with the other friend and felt a lot safer.
Today I realized how wrong I was... They didn't do anything to me after all, I shouldn't have left them. But I did.
Almost all my friend gathered round to talk. I was here to apologize to them, because as one friend said, it's cowardly to talk to someone through computer screen when you can meet them in real. Fair enough I guess...
Well, we met. I was so stressed out, all crying, and shaking and because of it one person said that I should just get over it and stop being so sensitive. I said it's because of my personality (they don't know I have SAD, I wonder if I should tell them). Of course, they didn't believe me. Same with me saying bad things about myself (alright I was a liar, a coward... and so on) - she said that I should stop pretending and being so miserable. She also said that I'm not looking into people's eyes (looking on the ground), having trouble saying things and I'm not gesticulating (which I never ever do anyway), so that makes me a liar.
I was apologizing to them for a few hours, but they said that I'm lying. They didn't believe a word I said. Also, one friend said that one day I looked into her eyes and said that they're primitive and I'm only with them to show off so people from my school think I'm not forever alone after all. I don't remember saying things like that... but they had better memory than me so I guess that maybe they're right. Of course, they didn't believe in my bad memory.
Only 2 out of 4 friends there kinda forgiving. The rest was shouting and seeming to be hateful, though saying that they will forgive me if the rest will. Still waiting for the other friends to come so they can decide whether they want to forgive me or not.
Guys, please tell me what should I do... I feel really bad for what I did. I wonder if this is a toxic relationship or not... after all they were always there for me, but their behavior towards me changed since I did this bad thing.
Today I realized how wrong I was... They didn't do anything to me after all, I shouldn't have left them. But I did.
Almost all my friend gathered round to talk. I was here to apologize to them, because as one friend said, it's cowardly to talk to someone through computer screen when you can meet them in real. Fair enough I guess...
Well, we met. I was so stressed out, all crying, and shaking and because of it one person said that I should just get over it and stop being so sensitive. I said it's because of my personality (they don't know I have SAD, I wonder if I should tell them). Of course, they didn't believe me. Same with me saying bad things about myself (alright I was a liar, a coward... and so on) - she said that I should stop pretending and being so miserable. She also said that I'm not looking into people's eyes (looking on the ground), having trouble saying things and I'm not gesticulating (which I never ever do anyway), so that makes me a liar.
I was apologizing to them for a few hours, but they said that I'm lying. They didn't believe a word I said. Also, one friend said that one day I looked into her eyes and said that they're primitive and I'm only with them to show off so people from my school think I'm not forever alone after all. I don't remember saying things like that... but they had better memory than me so I guess that maybe they're right. Of course, they didn't believe in my bad memory.
Only 2 out of 4 friends there kinda forgiving. The rest was shouting and seeming to be hateful, though saying that they will forgive me if the rest will. Still waiting for the other friends to come so they can decide whether they want to forgive me or not.
Guys, please tell me what should I do... I feel really bad for what I did. I wonder if this is a toxic relationship or not... after all they were always there for me, but their behavior towards me changed since I did this bad thing.
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