Theres this woman sniffing around my father at the moment. She keeps coming round and staying for far too long, he isnt objecting to it of course- but I do not like or trust her. I knew this lady when I was a kid and I know she fucked around with her friends boyfriend before he ended up leaving her friend for her, so she clearly does not respect friendship boundaries or have any common decency. Its been about two weeks and she has come over here 4 times and stayed for hours and hours - literally stayed all night til 7 am one time and til 4am another, plus he also met with her at a mutual friends place as well as going to her place once.
Like I dont want to stand in the way of his happiness but I dont like her, I dont trust her, and I dont like the threat this poses to both my current living situation and my potential future inheritance situation- yes I know thats quite selfish of me, but I grew up poor, I never had anything coming to me from my parents until dad's mother died and he bought this place. The thought that in the future I may have a house offered some real comfort to me and now the thought that this trash could swoop in and steal it really adds to my dislike of her.
The worst bit is because I dont want to come across as selfish or stand in his way I cant do anything about her being around, so its just making this place feel unwelcoming and invaded and has taken away any aspect of a safe place that this living situation had.
Idk what Im going to do because I cant find another place to live because I cant afford the rent on my own and frankly noone will rent to me with 3 big dogs... I dont have any kind of savings so the possibility of buying or putting a downpayment on a house of my own is beyond a pipe dream... Right now if this living situation falls through my options are live in my car, or ask my grandma if I can pitch my tent on her land (which is 8 hours away in a very small, rural country town).
