I was just wondering if anyone has found learning social skills to help their social anxiety/phobia?
I spent most of my late childhood/adolescence/early adulthood completely avoiding any social situations so I feel like there are huge gaps in my learning and I really don't know how to talk to people or make friends. I force myself to go to things (mostly with my kids) and meet people, but after 5yr of going to things I still have no friends and it's really hard. It hurts.
I know I'm doing stuff wrong, I know I'm lacking skills and knowledge when it comes to interacting with people and making friends. I'm also so scared of getting hurt. But I desperately want to overcome this, I want to fight it and beat it.
So anyway I'm wondering whether maybe doing a course on communication or something might help? And I'm wondering whether anyone has tried and has an opinion or suggestions of types of courses that are good, ones to avoid, etc?
Or other suggestions/other methods?
It's so lonely going through life with no friends and even though sometimes I think after so long I can't change, I'm not going to give up without trying everything I can think of. So suggestions are hugely appreciated!
Thanks in advance!
I spent most of my late childhood/adolescence/early adulthood completely avoiding any social situations so I feel like there are huge gaps in my learning and I really don't know how to talk to people or make friends. I force myself to go to things (mostly with my kids) and meet people, but after 5yr of going to things I still have no friends and it's really hard. It hurts.
I know I'm doing stuff wrong, I know I'm lacking skills and knowledge when it comes to interacting with people and making friends. I'm also so scared of getting hurt. But I desperately want to overcome this, I want to fight it and beat it.
So anyway I'm wondering whether maybe doing a course on communication or something might help? And I'm wondering whether anyone has tried and has an opinion or suggestions of types of courses that are good, ones to avoid, etc?
Or other suggestions/other methods?
It's so lonely going through life with no friends and even though sometimes I think after so long I can't change, I'm not going to give up without trying everything I can think of. So suggestions are hugely appreciated!
Thanks in advance!