i have no idea how or if this will necessarily help.. but i like to think of kids as like.. pre-corruption.. when they say random things like "you have black eyes", it's a simple observation they have made. they take no time to process and think about it. they are as pure as they come. they see something and spit it out. they aren't trying to hurt your feelings, confuse you, or do anything towards you at all.. they're just spitting out words. it's crazy how simple they are... makes me a lot more comfortable around them. lol.. i like being around kids and am currently trying to get a job at a daycare, just because they make me laugh and smile. they're so effortless and simple. always brighten my mood. i don't know... i'm not some crazy child lover or anything, i just think it's nice that there are still some innocent people in the world, lol... ::shrug:: =/