I'm getting through this because of thinking like that as well. Ever since finding this site, I've done nothing but improve. Well, hit a couple rocks here and there (like skateboarding, getting better at it while taking away some flesh once in a while to make you remember what pain is), but with practice and constantly reminding yourself you get used to it and the 24/7 worrying gets less intense & slowly dissolves.
Right now I can't even believe that I used to be afraid to pull the cord on the bus for my stop, mentally calling someone else to do it as I had a fear of people shifting their sight to me.
WTF? "Look at the loser. Getting off at this stop. Psh". Is that what I was afraid of? Nowadays I yell down the aisle at the driver if he/she doesn't open the door for me.
And 'tis the season for my SAD to kick in, but it's the mildest yet.
Getting better at the daunting eye-contact thing as well. I found that it comes in slight increments, not some sudden overnight change like we all want.