Hoppy
Well-known member
Do you ever get invitations?
The actual reason I'm asking, and I'm also sort of looking for advice here.
I have a female cousin, about the only family member I have ever sort of connected with, and I knew her daughter since she was very small. The daughter is now getting married, and I haven't got an invitation. They did give an invition to my parents, and apparently my name is on that, but I haven't even been shown the card yet ( 2 months now).
I did talk to her on the phone and told her I would like my own invitation, and was argued with. So at present I am really upset, and are seriously considering boycotting the wedding.
And I am also considering breaking the realtionship altogether. I consider it an insult to be treated like a child ( I am 41 years old), as if I not important enough or adult enough to have my own invitation.
Also the fact that I feel cheated by people I've spend many years trying to build a relationship with. If I dump them, I would have no friends left, nowhere, and I would have to start from scratch again.
What would you do or recommend?
The actual reason I'm asking, and I'm also sort of looking for advice here.
I have a female cousin, about the only family member I have ever sort of connected with, and I knew her daughter since she was very small. The daughter is now getting married, and I haven't got an invitation. They did give an invition to my parents, and apparently my name is on that, but I haven't even been shown the card yet ( 2 months now).
I did talk to her on the phone and told her I would like my own invitation, and was argued with. So at present I am really upset, and are seriously considering boycotting the wedding.
And I am also considering breaking the realtionship altogether. I consider it an insult to be treated like a child ( I am 41 years old), as if I not important enough or adult enough to have my own invitation.
Also the fact that I feel cheated by people I've spend many years trying to build a relationship with. If I dump them, I would have no friends left, nowhere, and I would have to start from scratch again.
What would you do or recommend?