i'm ugly , i can't stand it

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charizmatic

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Hey first thing i wanna tell you....dont look yourself or take ur snap making a dull face.....instead smile and take ur photo ....i am pretty sure ur beautiful when smiling and one also thing have u tried keeping long hairs...how does it look..?
Remember keep smiling ....bcoz ull perceive urself more ugly when u make dull faces....why be sad.....be happy....
 
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GhastlyCC

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What?!
You are very pretty,Falkor
And like Vampayah88 said...I'm not just saying that.
I am unable too bull**** with people you see.
I wouldn't say it just to say it.
You're pretty.;)
 
Falkor

Falkor

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it is so weird that all of you people think so,

I am actually going through the ground, I feel like my face is ruining my whole life. I think I have symptoms of BDD again ?? I was in the toilet again, washing my face at my job for second time within one hour. At least, it's not noticeable because it's normal to go to the toilet more often. I just am in there for a minute and nobody knows what I actually am doing. (Washing my face, plucking my cheeks to make it seem more red and healthy, putting vitamins and creams on my face.. i'm crazy i know).

I do this a lot, even my parents don't know, nobody knows it but me.

I always have creams hiding in my bags, or just wash my face with water all the time.

In the holidays I didn't care that much, because I just dyed my hair, I was happy when it was red. Now it returned back to dry. And I hate the fact that my laugh seems old n ugly because I have rinkles , from stress.

I NEVER WANT TO GET IN TOUCH WITH STRESS AGAIN. It ruined my whole face. Thats how I think?????

But I didn't feel like this for a long time, I didn't think of my ugliness so my BDD was cured for a while????

But now it's returning.

In the past, I usde to be way more bdd-ish.

But it is getting back big time.

Why can't I see what you guys see? ::(:

But thanks anyway. It DOES make me feel better that you guys say so.

All though it's hard to believe! (no joke, I'm serious)
 
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charizmatic

Member
well just try to focus urself to others people's talk whenever ur around them
dont focus much on urself ....it will only trigger ur BDD....
 
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charizmatic

Member
well just try to focus urself to others people's talk whenever ur around them
dont focus much on urself ....it will only trigger ur BDD....
 
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LOOK

Member
Lol! You had me going there, for a while. Thought you were serious. Was this some kind of social web experiment?

But then I see you did mention something about BBD. Have to say you're a classic example, if you really believe you're ugly.
 
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LOOK

Member
I still think you were kinda playing with us. :)

But if you're serious, it just goes to show how powerful BDD really is. Scarey, actually.
 
Arthur_Dent

Arthur_Dent

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Falkor said:
I'm driving insane from insecurities.
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That's th only part of your original post that I agree with. Obviously your BDD is back for you to think they way you are doing it right now, try to remember what helped you to get over it the last time.
 
MotherWolff

MotherWolff

Banned
Honestly, I don't believe that anyone is ugly. The only ugliness is what can be found in a wicked heart. You don't have a wicked heart from what I can tell. You are beautiful inside and out. :) Its true, no matter how cliche that sounds.
 
EitherOr

EitherOr

Active member
MotherWolff said:
Honestly, I don't believe that anyone is ugly. The only ugliness is what can be found in a wicked heart. You don't have a wicked heart from what I can tell. You are beautiful inside and out. :) Its true, no matter how cliche that sounds.
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This, very much so.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, and you are quite attractive. Your eyes, in particular, are striking.

Of course, BDD is a terrible thing, and I wish you the best in fighting it.
 
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Someonethere

New member
Well, if you want to hear compliments (I simply can't imagine that you really think your look is unstandable :confused:): that's the prettiest face I've seen in a while. It must be really a mental thing, as said before from many others in this thread.
 
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OceanMist

OceanMist

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I think it's so easy for a shy person to feel ugly. Many of us, especially me, lack a consistent social life so we are left without positive acceptance from peers.

I am not ugly, but my personality appears ugly to many people, which can make me seem ugly to them.

Since I'm shy, it took a really long time for me to even find out that I'm not a bad looking guy. That's because since we talk to less people, it's harder to get a perception from other people's eyes on what we look like.

I think it wasn't even until I went to college that I finally found out that I can be attractive when I noticed that women would actually notice me when I walked by them on college campus. I'm not like super hot, but I know i'm not ugly now.

Online dating has helped too because the rate I get messages back isn't terrible for a guy.
 
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