S_Spartan
Well-known member
Sorry for the rant guys I just really need to get this out today. I try with people, I really do. I'm nice. I listen to their problems. All I ask in return is just a little respect and that apparently is TOO MUCH to ask in this day and age. If it isn't all about them then they could care less and find the next sucker to listen to them. I've been dealing with this for years.
A good example is this past week when me and my best friend got into an argument on the phone because she wants me to come visit her, which I did last year, but she is completely unwilling to come visit me even though she has the means to do so. She basically just doesn't feel like it.
It's this "you are good enough to spend a ton of money to come visit me but not good enough for me to make the effort to visit you" thing and that really hurts. But this is what I've gotten all my life. "Friends" who really don't care if I'm there or not but when they need me.
Multiply this by 100 and you have my life!
I'm tired of people making 0 effort to show that I matter when I try to make them feel wanted.
I'm tired of being taken for granted.
I'm tired of listening to people's problems
I'm tired of being ignored when I go out of my way to not make people feel the same.
I'm tired of being used.
I'm tired of people expecting 100 percent from me but only giving like 10 percent(if I'm lucky)!
I'm tired of it being "all about them"
I'm tired of trying to cheer people up or talk them down off of ledges when NOBODY will do that for me.
I'm tired of empty promises.
I'm tired of inflated attitudes.
I know this is a SA board and we are supposed to be thinking positive about interacting with people but, I got to tell ya, people make it hard. It's no wonder I have SA when people have been this cruel!
So there's my rant. I'm sorry folks for it being so negative but I just had a really bad week and I had to get this out. I really do think that I will take some time and no more emails, no phone calls, no texting and just go off by myself for a while. It's not even like I have many friends but in reality they aren't friends they are only there when they need something or are bored.
It just really breaks my heart that to get anywhere in this world it looks like I will have to learn to be an a****** and learn to "play the game." Sigh.
End of rant
A good example is this past week when me and my best friend got into an argument on the phone because she wants me to come visit her, which I did last year, but she is completely unwilling to come visit me even though she has the means to do so. She basically just doesn't feel like it.
It's this "you are good enough to spend a ton of money to come visit me but not good enough for me to make the effort to visit you" thing and that really hurts. But this is what I've gotten all my life. "Friends" who really don't care if I'm there or not but when they need me.
Multiply this by 100 and you have my life!
I'm tired of people making 0 effort to show that I matter when I try to make them feel wanted.
I'm tired of being taken for granted.
I'm tired of listening to people's problems
I'm tired of being ignored when I go out of my way to not make people feel the same.
I'm tired of being used.
I'm tired of people expecting 100 percent from me but only giving like 10 percent(if I'm lucky)!
I'm tired of it being "all about them"
I'm tired of trying to cheer people up or talk them down off of ledges when NOBODY will do that for me.
I'm tired of empty promises.
I'm tired of inflated attitudes.
I know this is a SA board and we are supposed to be thinking positive about interacting with people but, I got to tell ya, people make it hard. It's no wonder I have SA when people have been this cruel!
So there's my rant. I'm sorry folks for it being so negative but I just had a really bad week and I had to get this out. I really do think that I will take some time and no more emails, no phone calls, no texting and just go off by myself for a while. It's not even like I have many friends but in reality they aren't friends they are only there when they need something or are bored.
It just really breaks my heart that to get anywhere in this world it looks like I will have to learn to be an a****** and learn to "play the game." Sigh.
End of rant