Tinkertoes
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Okay:
I have this friend im close to, and we go to the football games and hang, she the locker above me, and she the person right in front of me in most of my classes.
Here lately she's punched me hard a couple times when she got mad at me...
Tonight, at the game, she punched me in the stomach, in the arm, kicked my leg, and spit ice at me, when she got mad.
I tell my parents..u know, thinking it's really no big deal, and they get all serious..
Mom: "she punched you?! Why!? why did u let her!!?"
Me: "she got mad...and i didnt want to lose a friend, its no big deal."
Dad: "so ur gonna let a boyfriend do that too...?"
Me: "thats different."
Dad: "No it isnt. U need to tell her straight and if she doesnt get it say 'we done'."
Me: "I dont want to lose a friend, dont worry about it."
Mom: "NO! you should never let someone go that far to hurt you."
(I only told them about the punching...)
What do i do?
I dont know what it would be like if im not her friend....
And i cant hit her back like dad said afterwards...She'd beat me up...
Please....Please help me
I have this friend im close to, and we go to the football games and hang, she the locker above me, and she the person right in front of me in most of my classes.
Here lately she's punched me hard a couple times when she got mad at me...
Tonight, at the game, she punched me in the stomach, in the arm, kicked my leg, and spit ice at me, when she got mad.
I tell my parents..u know, thinking it's really no big deal, and they get all serious..
Mom: "she punched you?! Why!? why did u let her!!?"
Me: "she got mad...and i didnt want to lose a friend, its no big deal."
Dad: "so ur gonna let a boyfriend do that too...?"
Me: "thats different."
Dad: "No it isnt. U need to tell her straight and if she doesnt get it say 'we done'."
Me: "I dont want to lose a friend, dont worry about it."
Mom: "NO! you should never let someone go that far to hurt you."
(I only told them about the punching...)
What do i do?
I dont know what it would be like if im not her friend....
And i cant hit her back like dad said afterwards...She'd beat me up...
Please....Please help me