Im a 22 year old virgin.

[stevelee24]

An escort is 200 dollars an hour plus cab expenses. One night stands (IMHO) isn't worth that much and the money you save can either be used on two tickets for the Ozzfest, a nice cell phone or 10-20 blu-ray movies.

Sex with someone you love, though, is awesome and you can't put a price tag on that.

depends what your priority's are and how much money you have but im sure you can get them cheaper than $200 an hour

 

[pinata]

Sorry, but why are you complaining, lol? 22 years old, what's wrong with that? You are still very young. Why do you think it's a bad thing to be a virgin at that age? Are you focusing on the act of sex rather than building a loving relationship? Whether or not you've had sex is meaningless. I mean, I'm 20 years old and even if I'm STILL a virgin in ten years time I'll think not many people can say that (and no, not for a bad reason lol). Would you rather have lost your virginity for the hell of it only to break up with the person who popped your cherry a short while later?

 

[bsebring]

I'm a 22 y/o virgin also. Staying in school to get a degree and building a life for myself is my main concern right now. If I find a guy that wants to build a life with me in a long term relationship then that's when I'd want to have a sexual relationship with them. The last guy I tried that with failed. I was waiting a month to see if he could deal with me being in school, guess he couldn't handle it. I'm glad I waited, if I lost my virginity to him it wouldn't have ended as well as it did (as far as him ignoring me until I went away goes).
So my advise is try to find things other than sex to occupy yourself with. Focus on your self right now and don't take the "norms of society bullsh*t" too personal, because normal isn't reality.

 

[thor01]

depends what your priority's are and how much money you have but im sure you can get them cheaper than $200 an hour

True. I wuldn't rule out this idea, as much as people probabaly think its stupid. No I don't have a definite plan to right away or anything. But I'd keep it as an option. Not because I just wan't to "loose" it cause I'm worried what people think about that. I don't care about that. And there is nothing to be "lost" anyway. "Virginty" especially for a male I think is something in the mind really created by society. And I just feel that since, I'm not looking to just do it with someone I want to live with forver or something, it doesn't really matter if I had to go down that route at some point because its so hard to get it, without being with someone you tell you love and want to be with forever (which as I see in most cases is a lie and doesn't last hah). Even getting that in itself is hard though anyway.

And no I agree with whover said that it won't make the feeling of something missing go away. It won't change anything with me I don't believe. And I wouldn't want it to. It wouldn't be about that for me. It would just a be about a nice experience, which I miss out on hah.

I won't say or be able to agree that it is over-rated. Because I have never done it. Perhaps that depends on who its with. And I'm not meaning that it would be less overated if it was with someone you "love" and want to be with forever. That could be less fun than say an "escort" who doesn't mind the "man" not being dominant/used to doing it. It just all depends

And I don't equate love and sex in he exact way society seems to. Of course they are connected. It could be said it is an expression of "love". But I'm not talking about love in the way most and society seems to. I could feel love, but never have sex. And vice versa. Atleast I magine that anyway.

People who are "together" are sometimes, it seems to me, only together because they have sex. They might have nothing in common and dislike things about eachother. Yet they "have" to stay in this relationship because apprantly its a rule that you can only have sex this way. And they will therefore lie to eachother hah.

 

[thor01]

If you get out enough, to the right places, some drunk girl will try to sex you. You don't have to be good looking, charming, funny, intelligent, any of those things. There are 2 draw backs to it, STDs, and the fact the girl will whinge about how you were a mistake.

I think if you don't do it because you want to be romantic, or a gentleman, whatever, then get those thoughts out of your head, it's the 21st century, no one gives a ****, and how many girls are actually worth the effort? I'm cynical, but i've got a point.

Listen to this guy.
Dr. Phil - Out of Control Male Ego - May 7, 2008 Part 3 - YouTube

For me personally, I don't reall feel right going to some club, alone, for that purpose and being shy I wouldnt be able to initiate something with a random girl. I don't drink. Nor do I particulalry like the idea of some drunk girl oveall because they might be TOO drunk to do it proplerley, giving the feeling that you're taking advantage. And I don't feel a typical "man" in this way.
Therefore personaly for me I feel an escort would be easier, safer, and who knows possibly nicer, option out of the 2. I don't know that, as Ive never done it. But it seems it could be to me. Of coure it costs money unfortunatley. But so does a club and drinks hah.

 

[Sora]

Sorry, but why are you complaining, lol? 22 years old, what's wrong with that? You are still very young. Why do you think it's a bad thing to be a virgin at that age? Are you focusing on the act of sex rather than building a loving relationship? Whether or not you've had sex is meaningless. I mean, I'm 20 years old and even if I'm STILL a virgin in ten years time I'll think not many people can say that (and no, not for a bad reason lol). Would you rather have lost your virginity for the hell of it only to break up with the person who popped your cherry a short while later?

Kairi!! I finally found you, oh wait there is Riku! Nevermind forget you!
Ok KH Sillyness a side this person is right. What is the point in getting with someone and losing it if there is a chance they might leave you.

Don't worry about it, it will happen one day and you will feel better finding someone you want to be with rather than just having sex for the sake of not being a virgin, not being a virgin doesn't change a thing!

 

[Imaginary]

Dont be worry for this, I'm 22 now dont have a bf n still virgin, n I'm so proud being a virgin, for me< I just want to lost of my virginity just for the person who I love~ N I don't want to make around of relationship~

 

[Flowers-Of-Bloom]

I'm a 20 year old virgin and I've already accepted the fact that the 'virgin' part will probably never change. I have AvPD and mild BDD so unless I find a miracle cure for AvPD and get plastic surgery, then I'll probably die a childless virgin spinster. I've had a couple of years to accept that fact and I've decided it's not all that bad. Being married and having children is apparently very stressful so maybe it's just not for me.

 

[nafadda]

Tim Tebow is 25 and could have almost any woman he wanted but he is still a virgin...by his choice ..nothing wrong with that.it's not as if people die from being virgins.

Tim Tebow Says He's Still a Virgin, Saving Himself for Marriage

I think it's great to see someone with these values now a days esp when far more often people seem to have sex with just about anyone just for the sake of having sex

 

[bcsr]

I was a virgin until 22, and I wasn't in any rush to lose it. If she hadn't make certain mistakes, then she would have been the only woman I was ever with. But that's another story.

There's way too much emphasis on sex in our culture, and that's why we end up with little girls dressing like prostitutes. It's sickening.

There's no shame in waiting until you're with someone you truly love, or waiting for marriage. Sex without love is masturbation.