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I’m not particularly shy myself outside of large groups, but this guy I’m interested in is extraordinarily timid. My confusion stems from the fact that after admitting interest in one another things still aren’t going anywhere. I try to make emotional and physical strides to be closer to him and he seems…well I’m not sure what he seems. Perhaps hesitant is the right word. He’ll accept anything that I do, though not necessarily with eagerness, but only once has he initiated anything himself.
I’ve read up on this forum about love-shyness and other social anxieties, but those all seem dependent on the fear of rejection. I don’t understand how he could fear rejection when I’ve removed that possibility.
Help.
He’s beyond amazing and his shyness doesn’t bother me in a social sense. If there is fear, how can I alleviate it? Or is it possible that he admitted interest to avoid telling me no? I’ve also considered the possibility he’s gay and severely closeted. I’ve been shy all my life, but never in such an extreme. I want to understand what’s going on in his head so I can be what he needs to open up.
If there are any questions that need to be answered to help me with this I'm more than happy to do so.
Thanks.
I’ve read up on this forum about love-shyness and other social anxieties, but those all seem dependent on the fear of rejection. I don’t understand how he could fear rejection when I’ve removed that possibility.
Help.
He’s beyond amazing and his shyness doesn’t bother me in a social sense. If there is fear, how can I alleviate it? Or is it possible that he admitted interest to avoid telling me no? I’ve also considered the possibility he’s gay and severely closeted. I’ve been shy all my life, but never in such an extreme. I want to understand what’s going on in his head so I can be what he needs to open up.
If there are any questions that need to be answered to help me with this I'm more than happy to do so.
Thanks.