I live my worst nightmare every day!

Jake123

Jake123

Banned
I have a huge fear of abandonment and rejection, yet every day people disappear from my life without explanation. My best friend of over 13+ years completely disappeared without a trace, he could be dead or in jail and I have no way to contact him. Other people tend to do the same, they stop talking to me, they block me, they ignore me. Some guy I know (IRL) still signs on every day and every day ignores all my IMs, never picks up his phone, etc.
With no warning, no reasoning, I no longer exist.
Some girl blocked me from her facebook and MSN. No warning. No reasoning. Just gone.
I guess people get tired of me, or they move on to better things. But it's the most annoying thing when people do that to me.
It's like, if they have a problem, can't they just tell it to my face? I'm fine with hating eachother forever, but I at least want some CLOSURE.
This passive aggressive disappearing act bull**** just infuriates me.
Especially when I haven't DONE anything.
Ugh!
 
ilmatross

ilmatross

Well-known member
same, i guess ive conditioned myself to be ignored so when someone replies to me its a total shock :D

it sounds like they weren't worth your time anyways.
 
EscapeArtist

EscapeArtist

Well-known member
Wow, that sounds completely aggravating.. What's wrong with those people? Can't they grow up a little and just confront whatever problem they have? Your distance between these people is THEIR fault not yours, you've done nothing wrong, it's theirs for them not being able to tell you what the heck is the matter. Seriously. Reading this made me feel for you, that sounds like a very painful position to be in and I can relate
 
LazyHermitCrab

LazyHermitCrab

Well-known member
I'm sowwy. One of my best friends I have known known for around thirteen years as well, ignores me on fb chat. We only live two miles apart. We used to do so much together. Now it's like nothing..
 
Jake123

Jake123

Banned
I don't understand what kind of deep-seated burning hatred people must have for me to literally make an effort to evade all communication with me for over 10 years.
 
Sial Axetder

Sial Axetder

1
You've done nothing. I don't understand either.

Silence.

Strange. Life is very strange. Besides me, other people make it stranger.
 
ilmatross

ilmatross

Well-known member
Jake123 said:
I don't understand what kind of deep-seated burning hatred people must have for me to literally make an effort to evade all communication with me for over 10 years.
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**** em

try and make some new friends who respect you for who you are, and don't stop talking to you over some childish **** like not understanding your SA.
 
Ignace

Ignace

Well-known member
THAT is your worst nightmare ? If they ignore you then f*ck them, don't to talk to them.
 
Dronee

Dronee

1
Well.. I'm not sure how old all of you are... but this kind of thing is very common as people grow up... Usually what happens is that they don't necessarily 'hate' or 'dislike' you. They've just become different people and you've become a different person and those two friends long ago were different people from the people you're now.

Or they just got caught up with the 'busyness' of life. Only having time for colleagues as that's the only people who'll directly be involved with their 'success' in life. Just look at me man... If my parents weren't around, no human would know if I suddenly not exist. Unfortunately, I think it'll only get worse in the future as the pace of life increases.

I'm living in my worst nightmare everyday too. But the problem is that I'm already wide awake. Too awake. Sorry Jake.. wanted to say something cheerful haha.. but it just came out that way.
 
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