I am ugly

[UglyAsianGuy]

I'm just gonna write whatever here because I don't feel motivated enough to care if it sounds even remotely intelligible or not. Anyway, I am ugly. I know there are people on this site who claim to be ugly, but they are not ugly. They insult the people who are truly ugly like me. I've come to accept this fact about myself. Now you may ask, why do I care enough to whine about it? because it's not merely about my looks, but the reactions I get from the people I meet. If you are good looking and quiet, people assume you are shy or modest. But if you are butt-ugly and quiet, people assume you are some creep or child molester.

Ugly people have it hard. People will deny it because they don't want to admit they are vain or prejudiced, since that is not socially acceptable. Women especially will tell you "looks don't matter", but in reality, they are not only vain but also good liars (enough to fool themselves), because no one wants to date an ugly ass mofo no matter how good his personality is. I also admit I have a terrible personality, and I've also never been on a date. I never plan to.

I am also Korean, and realistically, heterosexual Caucasian girls are as likely to date an Asian man as a white man is likely to date a black girl. Even gay men hate Asians, because they are too effeminate. I am not a racist for pointing out the facts. A paper written by the University of Chicago's Economics department points out an Asian man must make $247,000.00 annually to date a white woman, which not only points out that Asian men are disadvantaged in a Western country, but also most women are shallow and will date ugly mofos like Donald Trump as long as they have fat wallets. Here is the full article:

http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.125.8773&rep=rep1&type=pdf

I don't care about dating a white woman, but their behavior also reflects on women of other ethnicity, such as the white-washed Asian females who would rather prefer to date a white or black guy than an Asian. Obviously, you will think I am an overgeneralizing racist. and of course there are good looking Asian males, but we can't all be k-pop idols.

If being ugly wasn't enough, I'm also stupid and have a ****ty personality. I haven't hung out with anyone since fifth grade and I don't have any online friends. I am too incompetent to even finish a degree. The one good thing I can say about myself is that I never treat women as objects, but that is only because I am a misanthrope and I hate both men and women equally. I also hate children and the elderly. and I hate the media. and cars.

I have no friends, I am a ****ty person, and I have no motivation to continue living. I've also never made a Facebook account because I am too ugly. Have a good day.

 

[Luke1993]

Hello there sir! Just one thing I wanted to say...

I know there are people on this site who claim to be ugly, but they are not ugly. They insult the people who are truly ugly like me.

But you may be just as good looking as them! If you were to post a photo of yourself right now, you may not be thought of as ugly. Others might think you're the one who's insulting "truly ugly people" by calling yourself ugly when you're not. Does that make sense? Sorry I can't word things that well...

 

[Zaona]

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[Confuseddd]

Dude...

How do you define ugly? Perception is key here.
What you percieve to be a fault in yourself could very well be little or meaningless to other people. Your problem is you dont even try because of these thoughts you have.
What do you expect? you have a horrible out look on life and people in general , and just because some article says "this!!!" ... .. does not make it true.
Just because some biased people took a group of "controlled" test subjects to derive a statistic does not make it fact. I would suggest you stop generalizing, because no matter what way you put it , yes , thats exactly what your doing. It is wrong and insulting im sure to many people that you think this way. "The world does not change , only your perception of the world does"

Lifes ment to be enjoyed , and pretending to have all the answers is going to inhibite you.
Learn , and experience things and take in what life has to offer. Its a ride man, and when you forget lifes just a ride, thats when you start taking sh*t to seriously.
So please Learn to have more of an open mind, learn to take in the natural beauty this world has to offer , learn to accept yourself above everything though.
I hope the best for you man , i really do , deciding to change is the very first step to becoming happy. Decide to be the best you can be.
Do the best you can with what god gave you. Also keep in mind it isnt the things you cant control that define you , its how you handle the situations that define you. So start making the right choices bud. You just might discover the world is far from bleak. The world is something to be taken in. Like a beautiful red and orange sky just before sunset. Its the little things man. Another thing i would like to say is
Big change is the result of many little changes. You can start on just a day to day basis. Believe in yourself and your believe in others will follow.

 

[mismeek]

So far everyone who has said they were ugly on this site turned out to be okay looking. I think you should post a pic see what you get.

I don't think I'm the hottest thing on the market, but that doesnt keep me from having friends. I think you've just closed yourself to the opportunity to have friends.

 

[EscapeArtist]

I don't think anybody is ugly... you are the way you are for a reason. Your every feature is merely an adaption to a natural environment, and thus every feature of yours is in fact merely an advantage for survival. Even if you are what I would call unique looking, that is even more beautiful to me.

 

[mismeek]

I don't think anybody is ugly... you are the way you are for a reason. Your every feature is merely an adaption to a natural environment, and thus every feature of yours is in fact merely an advantage for survival. Even if you are what I would call unique looking, that is even more beautiful to me.

I really like that!

 

[DanFC]

I think some people need to stop deluding themselves :-/ Whatever your perspective is, someone's going to be better looking than someone else to you. And even though there are individual differences, there are general trends among a given culture in what defines "good looking".

But OP, I know how it is. I too consider myself repulsive, it haunts me everyday. But there's a difference between knowing you'll never be able to date and deciding never to date :-/ I think people like us need to at least choose not to completely close ourselves off, because if we do, we apparently always end up on the losing side.

 

[Rodney]

Hey uglyasianguy, I'm not going to BS you and tell you, you may not be ugly. Some people are ugly and that is just the straight up truth. However, (this is going to sound really hypocritical of me) you can't live your life based on the way you look. The problem is that the western media glamourizes good looking people and makes fun of ugly people. Even the people on television that are categorized as ugly or fat are neither of the two. I struggle with the way I look as well and constantly fight with myself on wether or not I am ugly or okay looking and it causes me a lot of worry in social situations. To tell you the truth, sometimes I feel like the only ugly person in the world and everyone else looks right except for me and sometimes I believe it to be the reason why I am never approached but it probably isn't that. Ugly people can be happy too. I've seen it with my own two eyes!

Anyways, you're not stupid by the way. Your message was fluent and you used some crazy words with correct grammer and junk. If you want to talk, just pm me.

 

[AGR]

I am also Korean, and realistically, heterosexual Caucasian girls are as likely to date an Asian man as a white man is likely to date a black girl. Even gay men hate Asians, because they are too effeminate. I am not a racist for pointing out the facts. A paper written by the University of Chicago's Economics department points out an Asian man must make $247,000.00 annually to date a white woman, which not only points out that Asian men are disadvantaged in a Western country, but also most women are shallow and will date ugly mofos like Donald Trump as long as they have fat wallets. Here is the full article:

http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.125.8773&rep=rep1&type=pdf

I don't care about dating a white woman, but their behavior also reflects on women of other ethnicity, such as the white-washed Asian females who would rather prefer to date a white or black guy than an Asian. Obviously, you will think I am an overgeneralizing racist. and of course there are good looking Asian males, but we can't all be k-pop idols.

If this is true this is ****ed up,the truth is that its tabboo to be racist against everyone but asians(specifically east asian people),to be racist against asians is funny,may be also the place where you live,I am from brazil(mixed with japanese) and I never see this problem,I see a lot of asian guys dating people from other races.

 

[mismeek]

OMG.. your not bad looking at all! you definitely have kpop boy band potential.


Not even going to lie.. I'd hit that



I wish there were more guys out there that would be more willing to date black girls. Im more attracted to white guys and asians than my own races (im black and native)

 

[Rodney]

Are you ****ing kidding me? You seriously think you're ugly? Please... You're right, you should slap yourself for making this thread. Ridiculous.

 

[lunarla]

You are definitely far from ugly. I'm curious if you see any specific feature that you pinpoint as "ugly." You have perfectly fine features from my perspective, and conventionally. You seem fairly intelligent, and even though you're kinda self deprecating, you seem to have wit and a good sense of humour to go with it. And as much as you can tell someone's personality from online, yours seems pretty likable to me.

Oh, and you have a nice day too.

 

[Social_Monstrosity]

I'm also pretty damned hideous and have zero friends.

Edit: Wow dude you are not ugly. I'm not kidding around either. I promise you.

I'm a LOT uglier, I really don't see why you are so hung up on your appearance. Don't let the media's perception of what is attractive warp your sense of reality.

 

[mismeek]

I'm also pretty damned hideous and have zero friends.

from what I've been seeing around this means that youre just another cute person that just cant see what they really look like.

 

[tiscircle]

Well beauty is skin deep. Nevermind if you are preceived as ugly from the outside, you can be great from the inside.

 

[brancot]

i would rather look like u then me .. ur not ugly at all

 

[SweetCupcake]

I know the feeling, I always feel repulsive.

 

[Falkor]

Wow you are not ugly , you look good ^^
But I understand , because I feel this way sometimes too.
But it's just because I have a low self esteem, it's my own image I have in my mind about me.. It's just that i'm not confident but theres nothing wrong with me , they say
Try to be a little more positive, i know it's hard, but it's worth a try

 

[DanFC]

Gah, so another person who's not ugly professing he is, making us real ugly people look like drama queens

And like how others here said, what specific features are "ugly" about you? If you can't really come up with anything, then don't say you're ugly :-/ Me, on the other hand, I can list off bullets with what's physically wrong with me.