IcarusUnderWater
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PhantomPod said:Oh yeah, and have you ever tried just having a drink to settle yourself down some? I mean, you don't have to become a complete alcoholic in order to fit in and get totally shitfaced, but the few times I have actually gone to a club or a party, I have found that having a drink helps me feel more relaxed and less uptight and busy worrying about the right things to say or do.
I've been to clubs and parties in the past and I've went alone, but often ended up feeling like a freak or an outcast when everyone else seems so confident, sociable and know to say the right things. I daresay some of them can be good company in the right setting and the right mood, but I've always known that I'm not in their league.IcarusUnderWater said:I REALLY want to go to parties/clubs etc but i don't know how to start.... I have no friends and it would be weird to go alone wouldn't it?
LOL thanx. I had some good times in the early days, but as time went on, I had a whole string of bad experiences which magnified my SA. I haven't done it in almost 10 years now.IcarusUnderWater said:Cynic... you get kudos for doing it. That takes serious guts.
I dunno what greed has to do with it. :?IcarusUnderWater said:You are in a different league. A league that triumphs over greed.
IcarusUnderWater said:I think you have a really good point. But the fact is that you have to atleast try the whole party hard part before you can understand yourself. And remember that just because you had a bad experience with your ex... doesn't mean to say every party person is a scumbag... although i can completely relate you your relationship pain.
I agree with everything that you say... especially about the media. There is no basis for us to do something truly contructive for the benefit of those people that give a sh!t about the direction earth/humanity is taking.
Thanks for all your responses etc so far. I really enjoy these topics.