well actually before when I was single for almost 6 years since we broke up with my very first relationship .... I usually think every night to have a relationship again I always wish for a relationship again cause I've been very lonely and sad that I don't have anything to think of a girl I just cry it out very often ... its so sad
how often u think about getting a gf/bf?
#22
Just day and night!, no but really i think about it a lot when im lonely.
#23
I've been obsessed with the idea of having a gf, but I am powerless to do anything about it. I'm a deer in the headlights... I freeze out of fear and lack of self worth. I don't feel "worthy" enough for anyone... And people wonder why I hate life.... Dah?
#24
I have gotten pretty good at avoiding thinking about this at home,unless I get into a really depressing mood.
Most times,when I think about getting a girlfriend i'm out side my home,when I see a cute girl or a girl I'm attracted to.Still haven't figured,how to get out of that one.:🙁:
Most times,when I think about getting a girlfriend i'm out side my home,when I see a cute girl or a girl I'm attracted to.Still haven't figured,how to get out of that one.:🙁:
#25
Septor said: ↑Most times,when I think about getting a girlfriend i'm out side my home,when I see a cute girl or a girl I'm attracted to.Still haven't figured,how to get out of that one.:🙁:
That's tough, that's when I have my biggest moments of weakness as well.
#26
Everytime I see a cockroach. I am mortified of cockroaches. I always think, this is the major down side of being single. You have no one to squash cockroaches for you. I have to go arm my self with a broom so i can attack from a distance, and still end up shrieking and nearly jumping out of my skin.
#27
I catch bugs in paper towels and deposit them outdoors. I'm strong... yet sensitive.
#28
im in a relationship right now and everything is going great
im a shy guy and blush sometimes but is not extreme as many people on this forum
im a shy guy and blush sometimes but is not extreme as many people on this forum
#29
To be honest it would better than being constantly alone all the time and have some social contact.
#30
Moonie said: ↑Because of my SA and severe low-esteem, I have trouble staying in a committed relationship. I start to doubt that the person I am with really loves me – or if he is just in love with the idea of being in love. I start to think how great my partner is and feel bad that he is stuck with someone like me. I start to wonder if he'd leave me if someone with a better personality came along and shows interest in him. In almost all of my past relationships I get to a point in which I like to call my ‘sense of impending doom.’ It’s where I feel and think that the relationship will end soon. I never expect my relationships to last long. And sometimes I just want out before the new person gets tired and annoyed and embarrassed by my SA.So I find fault in him, so it won't hurt when it ends. I detach myself.
same.
And, I think about being in a relationship often.
#31
FountainandFairfax said: ↑I catch bugs in paper towels and deposit them outdoors. I'm strong... yet sensitive.
lol I do too! XD I can't stand to kill them.. Unless they're realllllllllly creepy.. but even then.. I kinda spook them so they scurry off to their little safe spot in the wall.. lol
#32
lol, right now I wish I were in total and complete isolation. From all humans. Forever. I wouldn't care if I ever saw another living being in my entire life. It would be bliss not having to deal with anyone. So right now I'm not thinking about getting a boyfriend because I never want to even touch another human again.
#33
I think about it often.
I have a fantasy of what it would be like. I do fear however
if it does happen someday maybe it will not at all be like
I currently imagine it.
I have a fantasy of what it would be like. I do fear however
if it does happen someday maybe it will not at all be like
I currently imagine it.
#34
Only night and day
#35
A lot of the time. You get to a point in your life when you feel something is missing and not quite right when you are alone. It's worse when i see couples and when it's shoved in my face on every film/tv programme.
#36
When girls think about it, they go and get one.
#37
Kien said: ↑When girls think about it, they go and get one.
Seriously? I'm a girl, and I only wish it were that easy...
#38
Its all I ever think about, and these thoughts have consumed my life for the past 5 years or so. This is the first year I've actually really tried to get a gf. I've had two rejections so far this year. Oh well, at least they let me feel them up a bit.
Gotta date this weekend actually. Third times the charm I hope.
Gotta date this weekend actually. Third times the charm I hope.