how often u think about getting a gf/bf?

[emofree]

well actually before when I was single for almost 6 years since we broke up with my very first relationship .... I usually think every night to have a relationship again I always wish for a relationship again cause I've been very lonely and sad that I don't have anything to think of a girl I just cry it out very often ... its so sad

 

[Noca]

Just day and night!, no but really i think about it a lot when im lonely.

 

[iamthenra]

I've been obsessed with the idea of having a gf, but I am powerless to do anything about it. I'm a deer in the headlights... I freeze out of fear and lack of self worth. I don't feel "worthy" enough for anyone... And people wonder why I hate life.... Dah?

 

[Septor]

I have gotten pretty good at avoiding thinking about this at home,unless I get into a really depressing mood.

Most times,when I think about getting a girlfriend i'm out side my home,when I see a cute girl or a girl I'm attracted to.Still haven't figured,how to get out of that one.::

 

[FountainandFairfax]

Most times,when I think about getting a girlfriend i'm out side my home,when I see a cute girl or a girl I'm attracted to.Still haven't figured,how to get out of that one.::

That's tough, that's when I have my biggest moments of weakness as well.

 

[Lorraine Manca]

Everytime I see a cockroach. I am mortified of cockroaches. I always think, this is the major down side of being single. You have no one to squash cockroaches for you. I have to go arm my self with a broom so i can attack from a distance, and still end up shrieking and nearly jumping out of my skin.

 

[FountainandFairfax]

I catch bugs in paper towels and deposit them outdoors. I'm strong... yet sensitive.

 

[azurro]

im in a relationship right now and everything is going great
im a shy guy and blush sometimes but is not extreme as many people on this forum

 

[zlench]

To be honest it would better than being constantly alone all the time and have some social contact.

 

[RedRibbons]

Because of my SA and severe low-esteem, I have trouble staying in a committed relationship. I start to doubt that the person I am with really loves me – or if he is just in love with the idea of being in love. I start to think how great my partner is and feel bad that he is stuck with someone like me. I start to wonder if he'd leave me if someone with a better personality came along and shows interest in him. In almost all of my past relationships I get to a point in which I like to call my ‘sense of impending doom.’ It’s where I feel and think that the relationship will end soon. I never expect my relationships to last long. And sometimes I just want out before the new person gets tired and annoyed and embarrassed by my SA.So I find fault in him, so it won't hurt when it ends. I detach myself.

same.

And, I think about being in a relationship often.

 

[RedRibbons]

I catch bugs in paper towels and deposit them outdoors. I'm strong... yet sensitive.

lol I do too! XD I can't stand to kill them.. Unless they're realllllllllly creepy.. but even then.. I kinda spook them so they scurry off to their little safe spot in the wall.. lol

 

[Jake123]

lol, right now I wish I were in total and complete isolation. From all humans. Forever. I wouldn't care if I ever saw another living being in my entire life. It would be bliss not having to deal with anyone. So right now I'm not thinking about getting a boyfriend because I never want to even touch another human again.

 

[redski]

I think about it often.
I have a fantasy of what it would be like. I do fear however
if it does happen someday maybe it will not at all be like
I currently imagine it.

 

[Noca]

Only night and day

 

[recluse]

A lot of the time. You get to a point in your life when you feel something is missing and not quite right when you are alone. It's worse when i see couples and when it's shoved in my face on every film/tv programme.

 

[Kien]

When girls think about it, they go and get one.

 

[lurknomore]

When girls think about it, they go and get one.

Seriously? I'm a girl, and I only wish it were that easy...

 

[antipop621]

Its all I ever think about, and these thoughts have consumed my life for the past 5 years or so. This is the first year I've actually really tried to get a gf. I've had two rejections so far this year. Oh well, at least they let me feel them up a bit.

Gotta date this weekend actually. Third times the charm I hope.

 

[Miami]

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