This is exactly how i feel about everyone Krista. I've said this before on other forums and alot of the time i've been laughed at because of it, but i do genuinely find everyone attractive, unless they are mean people. I am a 'it's whats on the inside that counts' type of person.
Exactly, nicely put dear!
Haha. Well, I'm no napoleon dynamite!
But here's to hoping there's some geek love in my future lol.
I'm sure you will, you seem funny to me and that's what counts most in a guy..at least to the girls who aren't shallow fools.
x_No_Oil_Painting_x said:
↑That sentence basically sums up what i feel about myself!
You both are good people, I can't stress enough that sentence because in the end you'll think what you'd like about yourself. The more you feel it though, the more you'll believe it to be true when no one else who matters sees you like that.
Considering my self esteem problems I doubt I could give myself an accurate rating. In the end however I only need to be attractive to one women. That's the one that matters.
That was lovely
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Being attractive on the outside, and being a good person on the inside are two completely different things. As much as John Merrick was a good human being, if you say he's beautiful on the outside, you're in denial. We're more accepting on this forum, but unfortunately in the real world, people are judgmental. Susan Boyle isn't famous because of her voice. The contrast between her looks and voice are used as a gimmick! So I'm sorry if this all sounds mean, I'm not trying to be. But saying all of us are beautiful and attractive is denying the fact that some people fit the mold of being seen as "attractive" by the standards of society, while some don't! I wish everyone could see things as optimistically as Krista and Amiee.
I agree, people are incredibly shallow these days. I don't say I find everyone attractive to be fake or make others feel good. I go by the rule if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it or else I'm at the most, cordial. But I say this with every ounce of honesty, looks mean diddly squat to me. Obviously you'll see someone who is pleasing to the eye and say "Oh he's cute" but that's mere speculation. Even coming down to friends and especially boys to date, if your attitude or personality is rude and disrespectful you will have none of my attention. I won't waste my time on someone as a friend who treats others badly and I certainly won't do it if I'm contemplating dating someone. The more genuine you can be, funny and a nice and decent person the more I'll think you're an amazing person. I wouldn't care if the whole world found the person I liked to be ugly because he'd be perfect to me in every way and in the end that's all that matters.
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