Ok, so the subject is ''how are you supposed to talk to girls''
To me that was and will remain the thoughest thing to do, since i have SP, like the rest of you here.
I'm almoust 24 and I have been in 2 relashionships till now: a 2 years one and a the other lasted like 5-6 months. I cant say i have found the solution to talk to girls, but i know things that help.
As someone said here: fake it till u make it. It works wonders. Just try to not be serious and treat the conversation like a ...joke. Try to make the girl curios by not responding directly to her questions. For example: if he askes you: what do u like to do, you respond something like: what do u think i like to do ? guess, or improvise something else. That puts more mistery i you and she becomes more interested.
Another thing in a conversation that i noticed over the years in that is not that important WHAt you say, and long as u say something...u can divagate all u want...jum from one thing to another...but in the same time try to remain coherent.
Another guy here said to start with girls yu dont feel atracted to...just for practice...and try not go ANY further, like i did...cause that'a a failed relashionship from the start...she probbably fall for you and the feeling wouldnt exist the other way around.
Of course its hard to maintain yourself calm in the presence of a girl u like...but think: it's the only hard part...the first conversation and the first 2-3 dates...in witch time u can accomodate to her...and if she accepts a 2nd a a 3rd date...than it's almost 100 % sure she likes u...so the hard part is gone. If she doesnt...then move on to another one and so on...seems easy said but i still find it hard even now.
Oh, and as an advice...try not to go on a date with the ''rifle full'', leave your ammo at home, if u know what i mean. It helps with the anxiety.
That's about it...if i remember any advice that has helped me i'l post here.