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superfluouslyme

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phocas said:
The preview for the US version seemed to explain the story pretty well, which is what spurned my interest. I'll give the book a try as well, though I tend to only half read books
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If you are going to watch the original Swedish version, be prepared. It cuts out quite a bit of the story. There is just so much information in the books that it's impossible to get it all in there. But I love the Swedish movies and I'm excited (but hesitant) for the US version.
 
Phoenixx

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After a not so good night/very early morning (didn't go to sleep until 4:30am :eek:), I'm feeling a lot better. I love how cooking makes me happy.
 
tenuous~hold

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not too bad. going over to my sister's for a night of drinking & little games... just a small group but a comfortable one. then eggs benedict in the a.m., & more family stuff tomorrow.

should be ok. then back to normal hum-drum stuff. hope all who are looking in here have a little enjoyment during the holidays.
 
twiggle

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I feel like a bit of a *****. I just deleted a comment an ex wrote on my FB wall and put him on limited profile so as he can't see much. It just annoys me that he's still looking at my profile and noticing minor changes I make in my profile info (his wallpost was about one of the changes I made to my work info, and I didn't even publish the change to my newsfeed!). This isn't an isolated incident either. I've tried my hardest just to be friends with him, that's all I want. I make it perfectly clear but he still seems to think I owe him something and his stalkerish behaviour is just annoying me now. And whenever he posts or comments on something of mine it always seems to be late at night (is he drunk?) and just ARGHHHHH. What am I supposed to do? I tried treating him like I do all my other friends and he just can't seem to take no for an answer. There have been recent cases of emotional blackmail too. I can't handle this with a polite face anymore.

Anyway. More importantly:

MERRY CHRISTMAS SPW-ers! Hope you all have a great, anxiety free day and may the new year bring you all a heap of new inspiration and encouragement to free yourself from S.A for good! :)
 
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Lostinthemusic

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Depressed on this Christmas Eve. Not sure exactly why. I have a few ideas, but it isn't really important. Don't feel comfortable telling anyone so I'm telling everyone instead.
 
MikeyC

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twiggle said:
I feel like a bit of a *****. I just deleted a comment an ex wrote on my FB wall and put him on limited profile so as he can't see much. It just annoys me that he's still looking at my profile and noticing minor changes I make in my profile info (his wallpost was about one of the changes I made to my work info, and I didn't even publish the change to my newsfeed!). This isn't an isolated incident either. I've tried my hardest just to be friends with him, that's all I want. I make it perfectly clear but he still seems to think I owe him something and his stalkerish behaviour is just annoying me now. And whenever he posts or comments on something of mine it always seems to be late at night (is he drunk?) and just ARGHHHHH. What am I supposed to do? I tried treating him like I do all my other friends and he just can't seem to take no for an answer. There have been recent cases of emotional blackmail too. I can't handle this with a polite face anymore.
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He seems to have a chip on his shoulder. I reckon your best bet is to block all updates from him or just defriend him altogether. You seem to have done all you can but he still want to make you miserable. Don't stand for that!

twiggle said:
MERRY CHRISTMAS SPW-ers! Hope you all have a great, anxiety free day and may the new year bring you all a heap of new inspiration and encouragement to free yourself from S.A for good! :)
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Same for you as well, my good friend!! I hope your Christmas is magical and your new year is filled with awesomeness! :)
 
twiggle

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MikeyC said:
He seems to have a chip on his shoulder. I reckon your best bet is to block all updates from him or just defriend him altogether. You seem to have done all you can but he still want to make you miserable. Don't stand for that!


Same for you as well, my good friend!! I hope your Christmas is magical and your new year is filled with awesomeness! :)
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Yep, I think he has too. I don't want to delete him altogether as I'd feel mean, but I'm uncomfortable with him being able to see everything, so I have to put him on limited. I know it doesn't sound a big deal, but he will realise I've done it and I don't want to upset him or anything but at the same time, he should know when to back off. I owe him nothing.
I really use this thread to rant a lot ::eek::

Anyway, thanks hun! I hope you have an excellent Christmas too! Must be Christmas morning properly there. Hope Santa brought you some great gifts and that you're having some beautiful weather too, to accompany this very special day :)
 
MikeyC

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twiggle said:
Yep, I think he has too. I don't want to delete him altogether as I'd feel mean, but I'm uncomfortable with him being able to see everything, so I have to put him on limited. I know it doesn't sound a big deal, but he will realise I've done it and I don't want to upset him or anything but at the same time, he should know when to back off. I owe him nothing.
I really use this thread to rant a lot ::eek::
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You're doing the right thing. Hopefully he'll take the hint and back off. You most certainly owe him absolutely nothing. Rant away...that's what it's for! :)

twiggle said:
Anyway, thanks hun! I hope you have an excellent Christmas too! Must be Christmas morning properly there. Hope Santa brought you some great gifts and that you're having some beautiful weather too, to accompany this very special day :)
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Yeah, it's a nice, hot day. 11:30am right now Christmas Day. Got some books and a TV and lots of vouchers, so I'm happy. Didn't expect anything so that's all good.

I want yours to be better, though. :D
 
this_portrait

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I feel exhausted from being out and about. Right now I just want to relax, read some books, write, and figure out how these dolls I need to make are going to look.
 
MikeyC

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this_portrait said:
I feel exhausted from being out and about. Right now I just want to relax, read some books, write, and figure out how these dolls I need to make are going to look.
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If you've been out and about all day, you most certainly deserve some relax time. Take advantage of it. :)
 
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