Why
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u guys stayed friends or was it awkward?
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u guys stayed friends or was it awkward?
Scrabbl
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Isn't that the point lol?
Personally I think being friends with a girl you like is a baaaad idea. you might end up very miserable lol. Especially if she gets a bf and always talks about her bf with you. I haven't had that happen to me thankfully but just think... if you end up having a crush on her the relationship will definitely turn sour
I think if you just casually bring up the question it won't get awkward. I don't know.. I will try it in a couple of month and let you know if it works or not lol.
Newtype
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Ah well that's a sad part too. The day that she came to my house and she talked to her bf on the phone, I went to the bathroom and came back thinking nothing had happened while I was gone. When she left, I logged on my MSN and saw that she was now in my friends list. I asked her about it and she said that while I was at the bathroom she logged on my MSN and added herself. Then she said that we were friends now and seemed happy about it. I really liked the girl and I liked talking with her so I thought maybe I could get over my crush and be friends with her, but the next day at school, it was Valentine's Day and I sat with her at the cafeteria. She showed me a card that she wanted to give to her bf. Inside the card was written dirty things... and that she was gonna perform a certain sexual act on him in the shower... Don't even ask me why she showed me that. I didn't ask. In fact, I had to stop talking with her after that. I was getting mental images o_0
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lunarla
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How romantic.
agoraphobickatie
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she showed you that 'cause she has issues and wanted to make you jealous, haha... people kill me sometimes with their outcries for attention..
Newtype
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Haha, now that you mention it, that could be true. I was initially attracted to her beauty but the reason I had a crush on her is because every time we talked she would be so charming with me and look at me like a girl who's interested in me, so because of that I thought that she didn't have a bf. When I learned that she had a bf, my reaction was: "Damn I got played!" And I talked to that girl for two months before knowing! LOL
Also, I didn't mention that she and I were actually working on an oral presentation about pornography. Her idea. So yeah, little boy with SA got to talk about porn in front of everyone.
Why
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do you guys think giving her my phone number would be too aggressive?
In art, we have to spend many hours outside of class to do our projects and whenever i go on weekends, im usually alone in that basement and its so boring. Basically the other girl in class that rarely talks to her, i tihnk exhcnaged numbers with her so if one of them goes to the basement, the other can go if they wanted to. But i guess its different since im a male. Should i give her my number and say if u ever go to tell me so it wont be so boring?
In art, we have to spend many hours outside of class to do our projects and whenever i go on weekends, im usually alone in that basement and its so boring. Basically the other girl in class that rarely talks to her, i tihnk exhcnaged numbers with her so if one of them goes to the basement, the other can go if they wanted to. But i guess its different since im a male. Should i give her my number and say if u ever go to tell me so it wont be so boring?
Why
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heres an update for any of you interested = =
well the past couple weeks, me and the girl been slowly gettin a bit more comfortable talking to each other and becoming 'friends'. we would meet up over the weekend to do art and stuff.
i summoned the courage to ask her out to lunch, and since our schedules were so haywire she invited me to a lunch with her frend also since they eat together at that certain day. That day she FINALLY initiated convos with me and i felt i was making progress.
then these past couple days, ive just been wondering how she felt about me so i took the biggest step ive taken in a while. i texted her "i like you" in her native language.
and i got the 2nd worst scenario: she has a BF
when i read it i was obviously crushed and felt that all that effort over 6 weeks was futile.
but now that i reflect on it, it was still a positive experience
1. i gained some 'courting experience'
2. i summoned the balls to 'pursue' a girl then tell her my feelings (well thru text) which ive never done b4
3. it might be awkward after this.. but i think we wil continue to be somewhat friends
4. i really hope this experience will make the future a bit easier next time im interested in a girl.
that quote i love "u miss all the shots u dont take"
before this, i was 0/0
i had a chance to be 0/1 or 1/1 when i texted.
i still consider myself 0/0 though = = since it was bad timing, not rejection!
i hope my fellow SA/love-shy guys be inspired by this sad attempt LOL
tomoroww we most likely will see each other at the studio, im not sure how to act but we'll see.
well the past couple weeks, me and the girl been slowly gettin a bit more comfortable talking to each other and becoming 'friends'. we would meet up over the weekend to do art and stuff.
i summoned the courage to ask her out to lunch, and since our schedules were so haywire she invited me to a lunch with her frend also since they eat together at that certain day. That day she FINALLY initiated convos with me and i felt i was making progress.
then these past couple days, ive just been wondering how she felt about me so i took the biggest step ive taken in a while. i texted her "i like you" in her native language.
and i got the 2nd worst scenario: she has a BF
when i read it i was obviously crushed and felt that all that effort over 6 weeks was futile.
but now that i reflect on it, it was still a positive experience
1. i gained some 'courting experience'
2. i summoned the balls to 'pursue' a girl then tell her my feelings (well thru text) which ive never done b4
3. it might be awkward after this.. but i think we wil continue to be somewhat friends
4. i really hope this experience will make the future a bit easier next time im interested in a girl.
that quote i love "u miss all the shots u dont take"
before this, i was 0/0
i had a chance to be 0/1 or 1/1 when i texted.
i still consider myself 0/0 though = = since it was bad timing, not rejection!
i hope my fellow SA/love-shy guys be inspired by this sad attempt LOL
tomoroww we most likely will see each other at the studio, im not sure how to act but we'll see.
