Assuming this is toward me.
If not, no worries, it made me think anyway. You are correct. No in between. I am told I am nice. I am nice.
Guys...are you..nice?
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Assuming this is toward me.
If not, no worries, it made me think anyway. You are correct. No in between. I am told I am nice. I am nice.
I think this says it all. I go through these 'hate the world' phases yet, outwardly I'm nice. I think being nice is a coping mechanism.
CosmicNeurotica
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"meaning one that believes they are nice, but are infact, clingy, insecure, self abasing, and seeking love to the point that arent likeable or loveable.."
What the hell you just described me. But I am nice! Just because I'm desperate and insecure with myself doesn't mean I'm not nice and respectful!
What the hell you just described me. But I am nice! Just because I'm desperate and insecure with myself doesn't mean I'm not nice and respectful!
aloneagain
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I sometimes feel I am too nice, like some other people have said. I tend to put others' needs ahead of my own. I think it's because I was not only the youngest in my family, but also had to take care of my disabled mother. She just passed away in December and now I'm trying to figure out what to do with my life. Yet, all those years spent taking care of her left me feeling it's my job to take care of everyone's problems. I'm trying to get over it.
seafolly
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Also ladies (ahem) can you tell the difference between a "nice guy" and a "nice guy who isnt nice"...meaning one that believes they are nice, but are infact, clingy, insecure, self abasing, and seeking love to the point that arent likeable or loveable..
Yessir. Though I don't know many guys who fit that particular description. I can think of one in high school who took a shine to me and he was fine...I guess. He was polite, said the right things, not a bad looking guy...BUT. He had an ego the size of Texas in order to mask his huge insecurity.
See that guy on the left? That's what I mean. The sad thing is if he just learned to relax and be himself he would have been stellar to be around. That and the clingy factor. Once he called my cell at random and got my voicemail wanting to visit me at school over an hour away after not seeing each other in over four years. The message? "Well I'm in Guelph now but you're not picking up so I guess I'll drive back to Toronto now..." Honestly. That behaviour can make a girl run so, so far! (us Toronto folk do not drive unless we must)
I don't think he's had a girlfriend in the entire time I've known him. : /
Yessir. Though I don't know many guys who fit that particular description. I can think of one in high school who took a shine to me and he was fine...I guess. He was polite, said the right things, not a bad looking guy...BUT. He had an ego the size of Texas in order to mask his huge insecurity.
See that guy on the left? That's what I mean. The sad thing is if he just learned to relax and be himself he would have been stellar to be around. That and the clingy factor. Once he called my cell at random and got my voicemail wanting to visit me at school over an hour away after not seeing each other in over four years. The message? "Well I'm in Guelph now but you're not picking up so I guess I'll drive back to Toronto now..." Honestly. That behaviour can make a girl run so, so far! (us Toronto folk do not drive unless we must)
I don't think he's had a girlfriend in the entire time I've known him. : /
Rembrandt Broam
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diesel
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im bad .... my friends would actually say im heartless and mean it too .... i can be nice but i kind of hide that side of myself , i do get with girls and never talk to them again - in fact im with someone right now and im trying to get with two others as well . i know its wrong but im bad , its the way i am . however it does conflict within me sometimes because its not the ideal im trying to become however it gives me a "dark" happiness , not like funny happy but its like an empowering happiness if thats makes any sense . for example the last time i succeeded i was walking home and couldnt stop smiling and felt above people . its actually a litlle addictive once you have felt it . i know women on here are gonna hate me but its a fault i have which i admit and i always tell girls im bad but thay seem to think its sexy or something until i they never see me again that is .
seafolly
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Nope, not hating you. It's a mutual thing, what you're talking about, they have their own brains and should be able to decide for themselves what's okay for them...especially when you outright warn them. If anything I found this post really interesting as I always wondered what that sort of person thinks/feels.
EasySkankin
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Yes, I have a "bad boy factor of zero" Lol.... But I can kick some serious ass if it need be.
Lol.... But I can kick some serious ass if it need be.Rembrandt Broam
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I can be very nice and i can be very evil.
diesel
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well when i say i tell them im bad i mean i literally say " im bad " .... so i suppose im kind of skipping the point . when they ask the usual like " would you ever cheat on me ? " and " do i mean moore to you ? " , that kind of stuff i usually just say not even to think things like that but i never actually answer the question . really im playing a game that they dont know about .
ronnierocket
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Nice to my friends and loved ones (usually).
Mistrustful and stand-offish to strangers.
A complete maniac and a nightmare to my enemies.
Mistrustful and stand-offish to strangers.
A complete maniac and a nightmare to my enemies.
seafolly
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But again, you're not lying and saying you wouldn't cheat, you know? I think leaving it up to interpretation should send a girl who's looking for a solid relationship running, haha. Girls play too, though some...just...can't take a hint.
coyote
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I've never known any woman to play games.
(be careful not to step in any of the dripping sarcasm)
