Guys, are you intimidated by fashionable girls?
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j_brown2
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Of course. not really though, you got some girls who dress fashionable and they are like that nice sweet harmless lookin girls. It all depends on the personality i would say, if she has got that nasty rude,anti-shy, impatient "iam better than you" personality, then yea i avoid them.
It is true though those fashionable girls mostly have that personality i just cant get along with it. not now with my severe SA
It is true though those fashionable girls mostly have that personality i just cant get along with it. not now with my severe SA
littl3misstrange
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no, i'm not. i've been told i'm 'fashionable' & i like to think of myself as dressing well. though, i certainly don't have high self esteem. more like non-existent self esteem. but, dressing well does make me feel slightly better about how i'm presenting myself to the world. i couldn't just go out somewhere in pj bottoms or sweats. i don't understand how some girls can do that like it's nothing.
i am however intimidated by attractive people. girls included. whenever i pass someone especially attractive, i expect them to laugh at me or something. they make me feel disgusting.
i am however intimidated by attractive people. girls included. whenever i pass someone especially attractive, i expect them to laugh at me or something. they make me feel disgusting.
Nowhere is Home
YES! I am, even though I'm not a "guy". I always feel like they are better than me, and I can't help but feel really jealous. I am one of those people who wear pajama bottoms or sweats everyday by the way. It's more like because I believe that someone like me doesn't deserve nice clothes. I haven't gone clothes shopping in years. I have worn these pants for like a week now, and they have holes everywhere ... just beacause I seriously have nothing else. How sad
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YES! I am, even though I'm not a "guy". I always feel like they are better than me, and I can't help but feel really jealous. I am one of those people who wear pajama bottoms or sweats everyday by the way. It's more like because I believe that someone like me doesn't deserve nice clothes. I haven't gone clothes shopping in years. I have worn these pants for like a week now, and they have holes everywhere ... just beacause I seriously have nothing else. How sad
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Errordotocx
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I'm not exactly sure. If a girl dresses nice and I guess fashionable, it doesn't seem to bother me all that much. But then again i'm not into the preppy or sporty girls. Though girls that I find really attractive I become really intimidated to them for some reason. My like and fear are both at extreme highs.
Richey
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Initially yes! especially if its based on non-verbal passing them by and making eye contact, normally i dont focus as much on fashion getting in the way etc but these days its tricky to avoid not noticing the way girls present themselves. Once you start talking with them you realise its like talking to anyone, your sister, a friend, relative, but often it can be intimidating in terms of presence and projection ...i often think "she must have thousands of friends" and a perfect boyfriend based souly on looks but honestly you don't know until you find out.
the last decade has seen a trend and advancement in hair styles so girls can do alot more with hair as well and straightening and hair dye, plus tight jeans are in , the punk lite look is in and it can often be intimidating at first, that style often leads to girls looking the same as each other and where i live the guys adopt the surfie bleached hair and skin tight shirt look, but i cant stand it. And you see them at the pub and they all listen to bon jovi drink the same beverges and drive hotted up cars, its follow the leader and sheepish stuff but they may genuinelly enjoy engaging in that scene. ....
my look is the indie rock type, cool shoes and semi-tight jeans, black t-shirts, messy brown hair, sort of like sid from skins but without the glasses or a young mike mills, laughs.
the last decade has seen a trend and advancement in hair styles so girls can do alot more with hair as well and straightening and hair dye, plus tight jeans are in , the punk lite look is in and it can often be intimidating at first, that style often leads to girls looking the same as each other and where i live the guys adopt the surfie bleached hair and skin tight shirt look, but i cant stand it. And you see them at the pub and they all listen to bon jovi drink the same beverges and drive hotted up cars, its follow the leader and sheepish stuff but they may genuinelly enjoy engaging in that scene. ....
my look is the indie rock type, cool shoes and semi-tight jeans, black t-shirts, messy brown hair, sort of like sid from skins but without the glasses or a young mike mills, laughs.
Errordotocx
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SickJoke
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What if the girl is completely ugly but she's wearing fashionable clothes? I think you meant attractive girls, which would make a lot more sense. And tons of guys, with or without SA, are intimidated and clueless when it comes to hot girls. But that can be changed, it's all a matter of conditioning.