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philly2bits

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I don't like that word "have" and "get" when discussing partners... It implies possession almost like an object ;s

Dont get (<-- oh no, there I said it lol) a gf just for the sake of it, wait until you meet someone you you reallly like or maybe even love:) (which might take time)

I agree with you there. It does seem a bit possessive. Although, just like in your message, it' almost impossible to think of any other way to put it.
 

TheManWhoUpholdsHonour

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I don't like that word "have" and "get" when discussing partners... It implies posession almost like an object ;s

Dont get (<-- oh no, there I said it lol) a gf just for the sake of it, wait until you meet someone you you reallly like or maybe even love:) (which might take time)

Yeah I know.And the salesmen idea didn't help but imply that we are products made for each other amusement,still a good idea though.
Basicly you have to realize that women are nothing greater nor less than you,but be aware of the unfairnessness of you having to pretty much lways approach first.Just when you find yourself attached to a girl,cut the loose ends and move on...because you have to.
 

combat

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Dont get (<-- oh no, there I said it lol) a gf just for the sake of it, wait until you meet someone you you reallly like or maybe even love:) (which might take time)

Duh... who would want a girlfriend they don't like? And my problem is that I've really liked plenty of girls... they just never liked me back, lol.
 

xxaimsxx

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Theres no special technique or trick on how to talk to the opposite sex. You just have to be friendly as you would and everything will fall into place. Sometimes you'll find a girlfriend when your not even looking.

It will happen and when it does you'll feel 1 million dollars :)
 

iamthenra

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I can only speak for myself, but my insecurity and lack of confidence isn't really about lack of bedroom experience. The main issue is getting to that point in the first place. An escort isn't going to do anything to minimize my fear of rejection or stop me from isolating myself in the corner at a party instead of interacting with women, etc. It also would do nothing to make me feel any more likable. She's getting paid. I don't want a girl who's getting paid to be with me... way too depressing.

Same here... I feel the same way too...
 

Felgen

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Theres no special technique or trick on how to talk to the opposite sex. You just have to be friendly as you would and everything will fall into place. Sometimes you'll find a girlfriend when your not even looking.

It will happen and when it does you'll feel 1 million dollars :)

It's different for women and men. In our cultures, men take the initiative, make the first move and so on. This is why women often meet that special someone when they're not looking.
 
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xxaimsxx

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It's different for women and men. In our cultures, men take the initiative, make the first move and so on. This is why women often meet that special someone when they're not looking.

I known allot of girls who make the first move.
 
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userremoved

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I known allot of girls who make the first move.

They may make the first move but that doesn't mean they would make it with us. So that doesn't make much of a difference. But thank you for your kind words anyways.
 
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userremoved

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Hmm dunno what to say to that.

The only answer is to get over the fear and make the first move and keep making it. There's no other option for men. Yeah it sucks balls but if it were any other way then maybe SA would be less depressing.
 

xxaimsxx

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The only answer is to get over the fear and make the first move and keep making it. There's no other option for men. Yeah it sucks balls but if it were any other way then maybe SA would be less depressing.

One of my old boyfriends was shy. He wasnt shy with people in general he never had sa but was shy with me and i liked him for it. He wasnt all bossy like other exes and show offs.
Yeah he was cool.
:)
 
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userremoved

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One of my old boyfriends was shy. He wasnt shy with people in general he never had sa but was shy with me and i liked him for it. He wasnt all bossy like other exes and show offs.
Yeah he was cool.
:)

Yeah I've realized that a lot of you ladies here feel that way. It is good to know there's at least a little hope out there.
 
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