Friends that look down upon you

[Oton]

My friends... i care for them, i like them allot. I have known them since we were kids we are almost all the same except that i have SA and they don't. They try to ''help'' me but i never see them help me instead they make jokes about my SA and how pathetic i am. Normally i can take these kinds of jokes i never got angry but today... i just kinda lost it. They were joking again how pathetic i was, how worthless i am and how ugly i am. That i'm unable to get a girlfriend. And i was getting depressed again which they also made fun of.

That was the first time i got the feeling that all those things they said weren't jokes at all... they meant everything they said. When i realized that i was hurt so much i could feel my body crying inside. I felt really pathetic because it was true i am useless but to hear those things from your friends hurts the most. I don't know what to do i don't want to lose my friends but to be honest after all those things they said i couldn't care less about them anymore. I almost wanted to get up and punch them in the face but i didn't. Anyways sorry for this useless post of mine and you can tell English isn't my first language either. Anyways good day to you all.

 

[Hellhound]

They're not your friends. They never were.

 

[laure15]

^Agreed. You should find better friends who don't put you down. Friends sometimes tease each other, but this is beyond teasing.

 

[dottie]

these are not your friends. you need to cut these people out of your life. you teach people how to treat you and by standing by these abusive losers you are condoning their actions. no one should treat you like this. cut them off and find people who are deserving of your company. you are better than these degenerates.

 

[soandi]

I agree also with Hellhound and laure15. You never have accept this kind of behaviour, that is really mean! :thumbdown: I had this kind of friends when i was in Middle School and I think thank for them I have SA

 

[Ignace]

Those people are not worty of being called your friends, Block contact with them, you shouldn't talk to them anymore.

 

[Oton]

Thanks everyone for responding and trying to help me out. I really appreciate it all and i'll just do what most of you say, i'll just ditch them. It won't be easy but i shouldn't take all those words they throw at me. Wish i just did something about it sooner.

 

[ImNotMyIllness]

I remember having a friend in school that loved putting me down. I had no self esteem and put up with it. I finally cut that person out of my life but I put up with them far too long!

 

[jaim38]

I used to be a bad friend, particularly in elementary school and 6th grade. I was very immature and ignorant; I blabbed a lot and said mean things to my friends. I also copied the bad influences around me. I didn't realize how much I've hurted my friends until much later on, but it was sort of too late. I moved away from the ghetto neighborhood and didn't get a chance to apologize.

 

[gummybear22]

i'm so glad you are (hopefully) not going to hang around them anymore. what horrid 'friends' they were. there's people out there that will care for you and truly be your friends and not say a bunch of junk; i'm sorry none of your friends seemed to fit that bill.