Yea that is irrational and now I get you now. Sorry but you didn't answer when I said what diet and what workouts do I need to do to loose weight?
Oh I did talk about this earlier but I'll get into it again. I honestly can say what ever you can do to get yourself sweating, which cardio is the most persistent thing I can do once I have done enough of lifting weights (using the machines, free weights in front of the mirror, anything that you find interesting at the gym). I tested myself with some actual "organized" workouts with a friend once, and another time with another friend. It's just too boring to me, and I know it has benefits but if I can *keep things simple* and just workout, then at least I am doing something.
Going for a long run outside is great because if you run to a certain location and back for 30 minutes, you keep going because you have to get there. Where on the treadmill, it's just you running no where, and it tells you when you have reached a certain distance, and you can stop anytime, it's just not the same as running outside.
Try to stay away from running in the woods, or if you do go with a friend. Running in a neighborhood that you don't know many people is nice for the social anxiety, where as running in a neighborhood where you know lots of people will prevent you from running in that same place over and over again as you fear seeing people you know (at least i do).
So just get in that gym, set the timer for like an hour for the first day, and do some workouts (anything like I mentioned above). And the fastest way to lose weight is just to workout 2 hours a day for many weeks while staying away from pop or beer completely, drinking lots of water, and just staying away from any fatty foods. Consume lots of calcium (it prevents calories from being absorbed in your stomach) and also eat lots of protein foods to keep you fuller, longer. Also eat lots of soup (it takes your stomach longer to digest soup in the stomach, so you stay fuller, longer). Dedicate your life to it and you will get there. Look at a BMI chart and choose what your goal of weight is:
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(also bear in mind that sometimes BMI charts are bullshit sometimes, because I know guys my age at 6"2 that are 140 lbs and the lowest weight of my scale is 150).
And also make a plan on how your going to maintain your weight (you can't lose the weight and go back to the same old fat-loaded foods, but you can eat an ice cream cone once in awhile).
Oh and what does CBT( I know it means Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) mean?
Wait, I feel a bit lost. Do you want to loose weight? Or you feel like you must, but people say you don't need to?
Oh and why do you have an addiction to the taste of food? You know where I can find those books and cds?
I have an addiction to food because my mother does (I think) and I think I inherited her eating habits. She thinks the same way towards eating food, so I don't hate her for that but I dislike having it as an addiction.
CBT is: "a type of psychotherapy in which negative patterns of thought about the self and the world are challenged in order to alter unwanted behavior patterns or treat mood disorders such as depression."
Definitely, I am going to start losing weight soon, I just got to clear my fridge of beer and other crap. I hate to throw it out if you know what I mean.
The books and CD's are really only for the motivated (I have motivation but it only goes so far) and I bought a book, and a book of CD's, and didn't stick to the routine. The best you can do probably is to find the CD I am talking about
(search on Google for "Beck Diet Solution Torrent") and listen to all the tracks over and over again on a daily basis. It will get annoying but that will be the best way to reinforce the good habits of thinking like a thin person so that you can replace those thoughts that are like "omg that ice cream was so damn good now I am going to the store to buy 3 more buckets", with "alright im good from here now I am going to play some Risk with grandpa".
If you search for "eating habits CBT" on Amazon, you'll find alot of stuff, but since I am really bad at getting into books I just stick to the CD's. Hope that helps, ask anything else.
I'd say that one of the primary reasons I am losing weight is to build the confidence enough to be able to approach the opposite sex, and eventually get into some sort of relationship. The confidence just isn't there right now and I know a guy who basically tried dating while slightly overweight and had not much success, so he just lost 20 lbs and had lots of confidence, and it all went uphill from there.