does ne1 hve no friends at all?

Some_guy

Some_guy

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I hang around people at school, yeah. But I don't see them outside of school. As soon as I hit home I'm alone.
 
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Some_guy said:
I hang around people at school, yeah. But I don't see them outside of school. As soon as I hit home I'm alone.
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Exactly! Theres people i talk to at school, but ever since i graduated from high school. I've been alone, with the exception of my family of course.
 
octoman

octoman

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I have friends at work but none outside work. It sucks cause while at work I can talk and joke around but then I go home and I'm all alone. I would really like it to have some one to go see a movie with or to just hang out but I've never had that.
 
ioanna

ioanna

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i made a friend..i cant see him but he's very good as he knows about phobias and he understands..but i talk to some people here that make me feel importand too(johnyD,remus..)
 
CPA23

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octoman said:
I have friends at work but none outside work. It sucks cause while at work I can talk and joke around but then I go home and I'm all alone. I would really like it to have some one to go see a movie with or to just hang out but I've never had that.
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DITTO octoman. I can totally relate to what you are saying. I have people that I talk to at work, but when I leave work--BAM!! Reality hits and I am all alone. The funny thing is that I have been working since I was 16 and this routine of being alone has been tolerable until recently. I don't enjoy being alone as much as I used to. Does this mean that my anxiety isn't nearly as bad? In some ways, but I am hopeful about the future. Hopefully I can get rid of this anxiety and try to make a better life for myself!!
 
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oNecoOlazN

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doo-hoo~

i've posted this " does anyone have no friends" topic a loooong time ago, anyhow, i have none and im getting used to it :roll:
 
incomprehensible

incomprehensible

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no friends at all. only socialise when drunk and start to feel like im makin friends that way but when sober trying to talk to even the same people is torture. and all my family is either dead or thinks im fucked in the head and treats me like it. 8)
 
xcatx

xcatx

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I have hardly any friends that i see often maybe one or two.Iv made one friend from the sa website and we meet about every two weeks thats good.There has been times in the past when iv only had one friend but my sas not as bad as it used to be.I want to start making more friends.I think it is normal for some people not to have many friends but i think you can change that if you try really hard.I see my family more than any friends to.
 
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turtlett

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Some_guy said:
I hang around people at school, yeah. But I don't see them outside of school. As soon as I hit home I'm alone.
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That's how I was in school too. I never cared to hang out with anyone outside of school. I never even wanted them bothering me on the phone. And now I have zero friends. I have my family, but still no one to talk to.
 
aboobooboobooo

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billy said:
i have no friends atm and as it stands i dont have the social skills to make any in school.I cant really make people laugh or hold a conversation well in groups.So small talk is all im good for which doesnt really pull people into friendship.Im turning 18 2mrw.Dec 1 is my bday=P no party no anything i feel so loney
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Yeah no friends either and don't worry I didn't do anything for my b day too. I spent my 21st b day getting drunk by myself at my apartment. :(
 
enmascarado

enmascarado

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No friends for me either. I have had SA since about age 5, earlier than most, so I always just accepted that I was extremely shy and left it at that. There were always some people each year in elementary school who would try to befriend me, but it was mostly one-sided conversations.
 
Prissy

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kuze said:
i know alot of ppl hve social lives tht they dont like but they still know a few ppl. i want 2 know if there iz ne1 out there with none at all. i wonder if my situation is xtreme or if there r others like me, i really only hve my family
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I know how you feel. I have a few girlfriends but no one I can really call a true best friend. It hurts so much when I see others clicking so well and hanging out and it sort of makes me depressed because I dont fit in with them so I ask myself what do I have to do to "fit in". This just makes me want to totally avoid being around groups of people sometime because of the sad feeling. I have many girl cousins and our relationships have even detioriated because of my social phobia. I am reading this book i bought called "The anxiety and Phobia Workbook-Fourth addition", by Edmund J. Bourne, PH.D. It helps you work out your social phobia and so far so good. It's well woth the $22.00. Try reading it sometime. Remember friend that you are not alone. God bless
 
lunarskye

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I've never had friends only people i tlked to in school. In high school I made 3 friends and hung out outside of school like twice. moved away and I want to reconnect with them but im just so scared they've forgotten about me and think im a bad useless friend.
 
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