Jodie-Tyler
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Doctors say that it usually starts with shyness as a child as we first go into pre-school/nursery and then primary school.
But all young children go through shyness.
However, if the shyness stayed right up until the late years of primary school, going into high school/secondary school makes it worse.
And then one develops social anxiety and from that may come selective mutism.
They say that's what happens in most cases, but we all know that every persons story is different.
I've had social anxiety all my life, I'm 18 now, and I avoid any socialising when possible. I dont go out, only for work, and I only work because I need the money. People thought that working would help get over my SA, but it only made it worse, and I'm so close to becoming completely mute. I hate talking, I hate using my voice. People at work think I'm rude and anti-social. My parents think I have an attitude because I never talk, just stay in my room all the time.
Is there anyone who has selective mutism, or has gone through it, and could shed some advice?
But all young children go through shyness.
However, if the shyness stayed right up until the late years of primary school, going into high school/secondary school makes it worse.
And then one develops social anxiety and from that may come selective mutism.
They say that's what happens in most cases, but we all know that every persons story is different.
I've had social anxiety all my life, I'm 18 now, and I avoid any socialising when possible. I dont go out, only for work, and I only work because I need the money. People thought that working would help get over my SA, but it only made it worse, and I'm so close to becoming completely mute. I hate talking, I hate using my voice. People at work think I'm rude and anti-social. My parents think I have an attitude because I never talk, just stay in my room all the time.
Is there anyone who has selective mutism, or has gone through it, and could shed some advice?