Does anyone else not care about sex?
- Thread starter Helyna
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Umm...... I'm not obsessed with sex, and I don't really think too many others are, either. Maybe you just read too many of the wrong topics?
bigDean636
Active member
Fixed.Helyna said:
bigDean636 said:
Are you being serious? I think most males, at least on this site, are closer to being terrified of sex. Your stereotyping is not funny.
Infected_Malignity
Well-known member
everyone's got some desire for sex/sexual stimulation... unless your drive is shot!
Doomed2Die
Well-known member
I'll feel alot better without the desire thats for sure. What with far more important things to think about for the time being.
What don't help is how sex is praised in society, hell you can't look anywhere without seeing some kind of lame advertisement, or hear most conversations without some childish innuendo and/or gossip. It just entices excitement, wherever the observer consciously thinks about it or not.
What don't help is how sex is praised in society, hell you can't look anywhere without seeing some kind of lame advertisement, or hear most conversations without some childish innuendo and/or gossip. It just entices excitement, wherever the observer consciously thinks about it or not.
krs2snow
Well-known member
Hi Helyna,
Sexual desire is a scale. Let's say a scale of 1-10. Some are at a 10 while others are at a 2. Your feelings are completely normal. Don't spend time worrying over whether or not you are "normal". There IS no normal. Just live! Breathe. Desire as you will.
Instead of worrying if your "normal" consider the idea that you may have Standards for yourself. Hold on to these standards and make them your belief. And then when you're attracted to someone; excited to be around someone, and know this 'someone' is someone important in your life; sexual desire will be there. Naturally. Trust this.
Sexual desire is a scale. Let's say a scale of 1-10. Some are at a 10 while others are at a 2. Your feelings are completely normal. Don't spend time worrying over whether or not you are "normal". There IS no normal. Just live! Breathe. Desire as you will.
Instead of worrying if your "normal" consider the idea that you may have Standards for yourself. Hold on to these standards and make them your belief. And then when you're attracted to someone; excited to be around someone, and know this 'someone' is someone important in your life; sexual desire will be there. Naturally. Trust this.
Helyna
Well-known member
bigDean636 said:
When did I say this? When did anyone say this? It wasn't on this topic. I know I often forget what I've said, so I searched it, and it wasn't on any other topic, either.
On a completely unrelated note, do you believe in mind-reading?
Pyrophosphate said:
:lol: Maybe. But I do seem to stumble on the girlfriend-sex sort of thing a lot when I'm browsing the latest replies - the topic subject doesn't warn me - and there's more that I skip over because the subject does.
sexyseas
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every 1 in this world doesnt hav the same likes and dislikes. if tat kind of taste exsist also the world will be too boring. each 1 does hav their own values and principles. accepting others will definitely bring understanding. tats needed in this hour to think about sex.
every 1 in this world doesnt hav the same likes and dislikes. if tat kind of taste exsist also the world will be too boring. each 1 does hav their own values and principles. accepting others will definitely bring understanding. tats needed in this hour to think about sex.
faithnomore
Banned
I want it. But i feel to pressurised. Its not fair, plus its not easy, because guys have to make their own way. While girls usually can pick whoever they want.
Argamemnon
Well-known member
Sex really is a trivial matter, and yet we can become depressed if we don't experience it. Maybe it is important after all :roll:
Ericisme
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Most males on this site are probably terrified of sex, not that they don't like it, they probably want it more then anything, its just that there(me) to afraid to try and get it. They would rather jump off a bridge then just go ask a girl out, well some of us. On this site that is.
Dodger
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Helyna said:
Not really I am a guy who is 19 and I do not care about sex, that should be saying something. I feel like that makes me feel isolated from other guys because it seems like sex is all they care about and want from girls. They act like I should want the same but I don't. I honestly want to get to know a girl as a person and like her personality but it seems like I am the only one who feels that way.
Ericisme
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I believe that might be kinda wrong. Most people on this site, are here to socialize, maybe make some friends, and maybe make some relationship. Most would rather have a good boy\girl friend then sex. Either sex once, or lonely for along time, what would they pick? Im nearly 18, sure sex would be cool, but I would hugely rather have a good relationship then sex.Helyna said:
sleepysparrow
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