bloveless
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hi I'm new on this forum
I'm 24 yrs old.
Naturally a lonesome person.
I think the way my parents has raised me has given me APD.
I was an only child. Parents were very poor and they make sure that I know that our family is poor. And they also repeatedly told me that they would buy me things instead of buying for themselves.
But I never really have any things I wanted. All they told me was to study. I was not allowed to go outside by myself.I was told that I'd be kidnapped if I go outside. And my mother told me all people are bad, my relatives included ( I was 5 or 6yrs old) You believed whatever your parents told you at that age.
Adult me now know that nobody would kidnap a poor kid.
My friends can come visit me but I was not allowed to go visit them. Eventually they stop coming.
I also avoided any activities that cost money. School field trips included. No sports, no fun hobbies, they all cost money. My only hobby was reading.
I never had a bf either because it'd interfere with my studies.
I was an A+ student and still I was always criticized by my parents.
I became too different from my peers. It became worse in teenage years. Even people I know at school, classmates started avoiding me. In turn I no longer seek to make friends with people or try to make conversations. (It's years long process) I became so jaded and no longer trust people.
I really believed the way my parents raised me really ****ed me up in the head.
Ps: where I grew up in kids(teenagers) cannot work. I had no choice but to rely on my parents and had to feel like a leech.
My mother always told me I was fat. I'm now 120 lb with 5'4" and I weighed less.(My mother is model thin and pretty) Being repeatedly told that you were fat do wonders to the confident of a teenage girl.
I apologize for my writing mistakes. I'm not a native English speaker.
I'm 24 yrs old.
Naturally a lonesome person.
I think the way my parents has raised me has given me APD.
I was an only child. Parents were very poor and they make sure that I know that our family is poor. And they also repeatedly told me that they would buy me things instead of buying for themselves.
But I never really have any things I wanted. All they told me was to study. I was not allowed to go outside by myself.I was told that I'd be kidnapped if I go outside. And my mother told me all people are bad, my relatives included ( I was 5 or 6yrs old) You believed whatever your parents told you at that age.
Adult me now know that nobody would kidnap a poor kid.
My friends can come visit me but I was not allowed to go visit them. Eventually they stop coming.
I also avoided any activities that cost money. School field trips included. No sports, no fun hobbies, they all cost money. My only hobby was reading.
I never had a bf either because it'd interfere with my studies.
I was an A+ student and still I was always criticized by my parents.
I became too different from my peers. It became worse in teenage years. Even people I know at school, classmates started avoiding me. In turn I no longer seek to make friends with people or try to make conversations. (It's years long process) I became so jaded and no longer trust people.
I really believed the way my parents raised me really ****ed me up in the head.
Ps: where I grew up in kids(teenagers) cannot work. I had no choice but to rely on my parents and had to feel like a leech.
My mother always told me I was fat. I'm now 120 lb with 5'4" and I weighed less.(My mother is model thin and pretty) Being repeatedly told that you were fat do wonders to the confident of a teenage girl.
I apologize for my writing mistakes. I'm not a native English speaker.
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