Do you or do you not want kids?

shakethelight

Well-known member
I have a real geniune love for kids so I definitely want children. I never really wanted to have my "own" though. Giving birth never appealed to me. When I was a teenager I knew I wanted to adopt. There are so many children who need love & spend their childhood in forster care. Every child deserves, a home & family. I know once I get over my obstacles, I'd be an amazing mother. I just wish it was sooner rather than later.
 

SingleAloneForever

Active member
Hmmm, it's a question that I've thought a little about.... not exactly sure about it even now. I'm almost 31. Never had a relationship. Part of me would like to have children one day, but then the other part realises that the prospects of finding myself a partner this late in the game, who will look past the fact that I have zero experience with women, are declining rapidly. Also if I can't even take care of myself properly, how am I ever going to be able to look after children?

I think I'm somewhat stuck, because if I *do* want children one day, then I may have left it a little late. I've found that there are plenty of women my age, that either have kids, or never want/can't have kids. Then I also notice that that the number of women that don't yet have children, but may want them, are in their early-mid twenties. Pretty much too big an age gap as I've found out.

It's a pity I couldn't just hit restart and start my life anew.
 
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