Do you have no idea if you're good looking or not?

Danfalc

Banned
I still struggle with my self appearance.Sometimes I feel I look okay,but other times I just see what I perceive as flaws and feel horrible.I get really nice compliments sometimes so I guess some people think I look ok at least,but it's hard to believe it deep down because I don't have a steady perception of my image.

I also know my height Is an issue,I have been told In the past I would be "fit if I was taller",and had slightly more polite..but similar comments recently.Funny thing is I'm happy being a shorty :) It's one thing I am kind of secure about,but it does play on my mind when I get comments on it.
 
No idea. I've always been shy and awkward. Would always self loath and focus on every imperfection thinking I'm not good enough. Always thought it was going to take someone kind and accepting to accept me as I am. Only one girl ever showed me any interest and she moved away shortly after a first date. It's hard with the social anxiety, fear of rejection. Just want to find somebody you can just be around and not have to be some kind of superman. I think women are in search of that strong man that can take care of them and be their rock. It's a fight anymore just to find a decent job, then the wait to get a car, the apartment, etc. Life seems to be just about patience and endurance more than anything. Whether it be in my 30's or 40's I will eventually get the car, the apartment or house, and hopefully find love. Got to work for everything though. Even harder with a mental disorder. Putting yourself out there and forcing yourself to do things you don't want to do but need to do. I wish the world was a more positive and social environment.

very well said indeed.
 
Any good looks I had are dissolving with age. I'm indifferent to that now. There are a few people I know who like me for who I am, when they see me they give me a genuine smile. That's all I need.
:)
 

schist

Well-known member
Some say I'm attractive, though I don't necessarily believe it most of the time.

Dunno, judge for yourself (I'm the one with the shortest hair, far left) - though this just happened to be a good photo of me:

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JamesSmith

Well-known member
Jim Carrey's son in the movie says that his teacher in his class at an Elementary School says, "Real beauty is on the inside."

Carrey replies, "That's just something ugly people say." -From the movie Liar Liar
 
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