Do you have a secret fetish??? (keep it clean)

Etbow23

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I think people misunderstand the meaning of "fetish". It's not something you're attracted to. I could be attracted to guys with brown eyes or English accents, but that's not a fetish.
 

1BlackSheep

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I think people misunderstand the meaning of "fetish". It's not something you're attracted to. I could be attracted to guys with brown eyes or English accents, but that's not a fetish.
I think in the interest of "keeping it clean", people are posting things that attract them vs it necessarily being a fetish.
 

Etbow23

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I think in the interest of "keeping it clean", people are posting things that attract them vs it necessarily being a fetish.

I guess, but a fetish doesn't necessarily have to be disgusting.

And to OP literally how can you necessarily keep it clean if you're asking people to list their fetishes??
 

coyote

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the thing that turns me on the most is my partner getting turned on

i get pleasure from pleasuring her

my ideal partner, then, is someone who gets off getting me off

focusing our energies on each other becomes circular

and can spiral completely out of control
 
I think people misunderstand the meaning of "fetish". It's not something you're attracted to. I could be attracted to guys with brown eyes or English accents, but that's not a fetish.

Does it really matter? We can't really go into deep detail, it might as well become a thread about what we're attracted to. It's easier to keep it tame that way. ;) Specific fetishes become sexual rather quick because they have a specific definition/activity tied to it.
 
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Foxface

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I'm open to a lot of things, encluding fetishes, but stuff like that, I don't like discussing to people I don't know, only people I trust and understand.

Yep. Some fetishes that people would think I'm a sick pervert.. View attachment 2770

I think that goes for most people.

I guess, but a fetish doesn't necessarily have to be disgusting.

And to OP literally how can you necessarily keep it clean if you're asking people to list their fetishes??

Ya. Most fetishes are inapropriate to talk about.

the thing that turns me on the most is my partner getting turned on

I get pleasure from pleasuring her.

my ideal partner, then, is someone who gets off getting me off.

Focusing our energies on each other becomes circular

and can spiral completely out of control

This would probably me one of mine too. I guess it's a common one.

People who are skinny, are very attractive to me, and is a turn on, especially if really skinny.

Dominance is another turn on. Both me and someone else, dominent over me, as long as it's in a playful way. Never experinced it.
 
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AGR

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small thin hands,looks so delicate and feminine!
I was on the train this week and there was a japanese girl there she had very thin delicate hands that I couldnt take my eyes off of them.
 

Facethefear

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Please define what a fetish is so that people can respond to a question they understand:
-an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression (if it is absent).

Carry on...
 

coyote

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Please define what a fetish is so that people can respond to a question they understand:
-an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression (if it is absent).

Carry on...

so, you mean like... Play-Doh or rhubarb?
 

Facethefear

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Q: so, you mean like... Play-Doh or rhubarb?
A: no Honey, not Play-Doh and never rhubard. Guess again...I will tell you when you get warmer.
 

Facethefear

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Q: waffles? i like waffles
A: Where are these waffles that you like so much and do you pour real maple syrup on them? The stuff that comes out of a maple tree not the Aunt Jemina melted brown sugar travesty. I am from Quebec so I know. Waffles, eh? You are getting warmer.
 

da_illest101

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Q: waffles? i like waffles
A: Where are these waffles that you like so much and do you pour real maple syrup on them? The stuff that comes out of a maple tree not the Aunt Jemina melted brown sugar travesty. I am from Quebec so I know. Waffles, eh? You are getting warmer.

It only take a canadian to know real maple syrop! And poutine
 

awkwardamanda

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Please define what a fetish is so that people can respond to a question they understand:
-an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression (if it is absent).

Carry on...

Thank you.

I can honestly say I have a fetish that fits that definition. But I refuse to admit to what it is.:rolleyes:

People are attracted all sorts of things. Nothing wrong with discussing them. It's not entirely off topic. But it's worth pointing out that most of what people are talking about would not be considered fetishes.
 

LazyHermitCrab

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Thank you.

I can honestly say I have a fetish that fits that definition. But I refuse to admit to what it is.:rolleyes:

People are attracted all sorts of things. Nothing wrong with discussing them. It's not entirely off topic. But it's worth pointing out that most of what people are talking about would not be considered fetishes.

same lol....................
 
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