I think in the interest of "keeping it clean", people are posting things that attract them vs it necessarily being a fetish.I think people misunderstand the meaning of "fetish". It's not something you're attracted to. I could be attracted to guys with brown eyes or English accents, but that's not a fetish.
I think in the interest of "keeping it clean", people are posting things that attract them vs it necessarily being a fetish.
True, but perhaps you're overthinking it a bit. Is there any harm in people answering with things they are merely attracted to?I guess, but a fetish doesn't necessarily have to be disgusting.
I think people misunderstand the meaning of "fetish". It's not something you're attracted to. I could be attracted to guys with brown eyes or English accents, but that's not a fetish.
Yep. Some fetishes that people would think I'm a sick pervert.. View attachment 2770
I guess, but a fetish doesn't necessarily have to be disgusting.
And to OP literally how can you necessarily keep it clean if you're asking people to list their fetishes??
the thing that turns me on the most is my partner getting turned on
I get pleasure from pleasuring her.
my ideal partner, then, is someone who gets off getting me off.
Focusing our energies on each other becomes circular
and can spiral completely out of control
Leather, whips, hot wax, and pudding (vanilla, of course).
Please define what a fetish is so that people can respond to a question they understand:
-an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression (if it is absent).
Carry on...
Q: so, you mean like... Play-Doh or rhubarb?
A: no Honey, not Play-Doh and never rhubard. Guess again...I will tell you when you get warmer.
Q: waffles? i like waffles
A: Where are these waffles that you like so much and do you pour real maple syrup on them? The stuff that comes out of a maple tree not the Aunt Jemina melted brown sugar travesty. I am from Quebec so I know. Waffles, eh? You are getting warmer.
Please define what a fetish is so that people can respond to a question they understand:
-an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression (if it is absent).
Carry on...
Thank you.
I can honestly say I have a fetish that fits that definition. But I refuse to admit to what it is.
People are attracted all sorts of things. Nothing wrong with discussing them. It's not entirely off topic. But it's worth pointing out that most of what people are talking about would not be considered fetishes.