Do you ever want to have children?

[ajo86]

I would love to have kids one day but I wouldn't want them going through what I have in life, that really scares me.

 

[Amon]

I do want to have kids, but I don't know if it ever happens. At this rate I'll be way too old to have kids when I finally meet someone (if ever), plus, I really don't want to have kids before I've gotten better. No kid needs a messed up mom.

 

[Fighter86]

No thank you. I think children are only adorable if they are not yours. Besides, I don't feel an affinity with kids, I think they are just messy and noisy, I don't think I can stand waking up like 3 times a night just to feed them milk and change diapers, it would drive me crazy. Also with raising living costs, raising children nowadays are too expensive. And really, as it is, I already have ENOUGH problems, and children would only compound those problems and make my life worse than it already is, so no thanks, I'll rather not have kids.

 

[MsKip]

My boyfriend's been talking at me about kids.

"We're gonna have a few kids. Not too many, but just the right amount. And we'll have a reasonable sized house and a garden, you can have your little vegetable patch as long as I can have a shed. Etcetcetc".

The way he talks about the future makes me want children.
So at the moment, I do.
But that could change, I'm only 15.

 

[WelshOne]

If I ever get to be with a woman I love, I would like to have some children, yes. By this time though I have no intention of still being socially anxious, and I would make it my life's goal to bring them up without passing on my own weaknesses to them (meaning I would SHOW no weakness when in front of them.)

My plans right now are to join the military (RAF) in 2 years time. If that doesnt change me then nothing will. So after that time, I would like some little 'uns

 

[nephatitus]

in the mental state i am in right now, i would have to say no

 

[Flowers-Of-Bloom]

I dislike children/babies. They're a lot of work and they're bratty, dirty, ugly, smelly little midgets.
Pregnancy is not something I want to experience.

Still, I'm unsure. I guess I would decide based on the pros/cons, my partner, financial stability, income, household and my present mental state.

But I don't really think I'll ever be able to raise a child. I have enough problems.

 

[this_portrait]

No kiddies for me. My philosophy on children is that they are a waste of time, energy, and money that I don't have. I don't even enjoy the company of little kids, and the fact that my older half-sister has four of them doesn't make them any more appealing to me.

 

[cannotbefound]

more no..then yes.
but i dont want to think about kids now..

 

[Noca]

I cant have children.

 

[sabbath9]

I voted "I can't have children", mainly because I'm poor and can barely support myself and my wife. If I ever won a lottery prize of millions of dollars then maybe I might adopt a child before having one of my own. But I never play the lottery anyway so...

 

[BeachGaBulldog]

I did when I was younger, just like I wanted to get married. Thank God, I haven't done either one. As I grew older, I grew smarter. If I could have the child while its still a baby, fine, but when it got older and started getting a smart ass mouth, take it away.
Hell no, I would rather take an enema than have a kid.

 

[NothingElseMatters]

yeah,i want kids.and i am gonna teach them what noone ever teached me

 

[Kinetik]

Definitely not.

 

[Illusions]

It depends on my future situation, I guess.