Do people sometimes think your boring?

Biggle

Member
People sometimes consider me boring, i guess thats because i prefer a smaller and more intimate circle of friends, rather than going to a big party...

I don't consider myself boring and i guess that is what really counts, i like to do alot of things like: drawing, discussing, playing piano, watching movies, go for a walk etc. But the things i like a probably what more outgoing people consider boring...

I prefer to spend time with people who are more like myself... The friends i have that a close dont consider me boring, but people who only know me superficially usually does i guess...

The most important thing is probably to like yourself for what you are, and accept that it is not nessecarily wrong to prefer to be alone... Even though our outgoing culturer demands us to be social all the time

(pardon my english im not native :p)
 

Richey

Well-known member
I find myself being quiet and boring in large groups and often at work where i feel there is a vibe of people using their work personas, so the entire environment just feels out of wack for me to feel comfortable in. Managers are often switched into their work persona of being very upfront and demanding. I feel more relaxed in my own time with no pressure on me.
 

A86

Well-known member
it was mentioned before that being boring is relative. I would agree with that.
the way I see it, different people are stimulated in different ways. personaly I am very easy stimulated through reading and gathering of knowledge, but less so through practical interaction.
there's a lot of people that cannot get any stimulus from such actions, and have to consistently interact with their surrounding environment, not just talk about it.
its these sort of people that call me boring, and I guess from their perspective, I am.
 

Meggy0001

Well-known member
Yeah they do ::(: becuase I am always quite and would rather be on my own than join a grop of people but I don't think I am boring though :D people should get to know me because I am a fun person just people don't give me a chance to show it ::(: but ohwell it's their loss I guess :)
 

MikeyC

Well-known member
Yeah they do ::(: becuase I am always quite and would rather be on my own than join a grop of people but I don't think I am boring though :D people should get to know me because I am a fun person just people don't give me a chance to show it ::(: but ohwell it's their loss I guess :)
I like your attitude.
 
Yea ppl sometimes do, because I'm a girl studying geek stuff. That's why.
Though It's interesting..

Yesterday I was singing with three girls (3 guitarists) at a music college and they said, they love gaming, so I'm welcome at the club! haha

Finally I'm not weird. Though the 2 girls aren't really motivated on the songs.. They like hard rock and I prefer some more different music ::p:

But it's worth a try.. the 1 girl likes same music as I do so maybe we should think of a good compromise.. :mad:
 

razzle dazzle rose

Well-known member
I used to get really down on myself because I felt my interests were lame. Well, now I really don't care. I like what I like and I will make no apologies for it. I am not that weird anyway. I would like to develop my interests more and take up new hobbies. If I am doing something with my time then I won't feel so boring; but I will admit I waste a lot of time online when I could be doing something "better." Being online is not a hobby! Hahaha...
 

Aletheia

Well-known member
I often think I'm boring. I worry about this endlessly in relationships.

But if other people think I'm boring, they're polite enough not to tell me.
 

Iluv

Well-known member
Yea ppl sometimes do, because I'm a girl studying geek stuff. That's why.

As a fellow geek studier I do not find you boring at all. Anyone who says otherwise is obviously just jealous.
We can study geeky stuff together!
 

KiaKaha

Banned
Seeing as the majority of people I come across rarely want anything to do with me, or to have any prolonged exposure.... I can only assume that I am boring - among other things.
 
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