I must have written something wrong!
These comments are the harshest I've ever had.
1. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH WORKING. I know so many who refuse to work and live on 'benefit'.
I WANT TO ACHIEVE. MY LIFE STARTED THAT WAY, AND IT WILL END WITH THAT DESIRE. I CAN'T KEEP ANY FRIENDS NOW BECAUSE I HAVE NO SELF-WORTH. MY LIFE GOAL AS AN ENGINEER IS TO ACHIEVE THINGS NOBODY ELSE HAS. ALL I WANT IS TO EARN MONEY. I DON'T CARE ABOUT PEOPLE. I DON'T CARE ABOUT SPENDING MONEY ON LUXURIES, EITHER. I WANT TO EARN MY PLACE. I DID, FOR ABOUT 6 YEARS. NOW, I AM REJECTED BY EMPLOYERS. SIMPLE AS THAT. THAT'S WHY I HAVE SA NOW. ALL MY FAMILY ARE ENTREPRENEURS. I DON'T UNDERSTAND THE REASON FOR REJECTION. POSSIBLY THE FACT THAT I DON'T WANT TO WORK LIKE A PEASANT FOR A BOSS. I WANT TO BE MY BOSS AND HAVE MY OWN COMPANY.
ANTI MATTER THINKS I HAVE NO CAREER GOALS OR PROSPECTS? THATS 1/x FOR ME. WHAT DID I SAY WRONG? MY DESIRE, CAPABILITY AND DRIVE IS THERE, FOR SERIOUS SELF-EMPLOYMENT. IT'S REJECTION IN THE WORKPLACE THAT LEADS ME ENTIRELY TO SUICIDE.
2. Sorry: awkwardamanda, who did I insult for having cancer? Tell me. Where was the insult? All I am hoping for is my own suicide. Having childhood and teenage years riddled with serious blood problems, stuck as an inpatient in kids leukaemia wards, and watching them die, day-by-day, was not a pleasant time. I got through that.
What I cannot get through, for the last 10 years, is my aptitude, knowledge, experience and sharp skills, but being rejected at interview or after a few months in a position, because there is 'someone better'. That is not true. I am an expert. BUT I cannot do things THEIR way. I do it my way. This life is the ultra torture. I coped just fine as a 7-year-old stuck in a hospital bed with needles up my arms, groin and feet, with doctors' research being done on me to find a 'cure'. What I can't cope with is presenting my self, demonstrating what I do on whiteboards in interviews and board meetings, with all stakeholders rejecting my ideas. I feel sorry for them, thinking strictly just inside the box. I know all big earners are successful by being standard. I'm the opposite. An engineer with creativity.
I'm proud for not smashing people in interview / meetings right there, and ... using furniture to beat them to a pulp. I can control that. This rejection makes me feel a person in 24/7 torture, with no place on this planet - happier with suicide (still rejecting that) but a route to cancer as my place in the world. I seemed to belong in hospital all those years - I didn't like it, but put up with it. Got my degree, and now rejection. I'm not putting up with that.
I feel a deity's grand plan for an earnest, driven, committed, diligent, serious worker, suffering ultimate rejection. Torture.
Sorry