cobalt_bluester
Well-known member
hi. i have a huge, huge dilemma on my hands. the government has stopped my Income and Support Allowance, and now I have nothing coming in. I have appealed against this decision as I am simply way too unwell to work full-time. It is amazing (and incredibly unfair) that my benefit has been stopped as I have been signed off as unfit to work by my doctor now for the last 3-4 months so that I could keep receiving my ISA. I am also an outpatient of a mental health unit and go for 'check-ups' every 6 weeks.
I am now faced with the terrible situation of having to find a job in the next 4 weeks or else probably loose everything - my partner, our rented home and my dog!! Have asked my older sister for help as she offered it a while ago, but now she's backtracking and saying that she can only afford a one-off payment of half of our next month's rent! Makes me mad as she is making quite a lot of money and can afford to take holidays, but not afford to help out her desperate brother!! Her husband (my brother in law) is a university lecturer and must be making well over £30k a year so this makes it even worse in my eyes. It has made me feel very let down, very let down indeed. My parents have helped pay the rent for the last 3 months, but I simply cannot keep asking them for help as it's not like they are loaded and I feel very guilty. So, I have to bite the bullet now and try and find work - will probably end up working in a pikey factory with a load of bullies and this will obviously make things much worse for me health wise. Believe me, I've worked alongside some real morons before it seems like factories and warehouse breed this type of moron.
Wish me luck, I am going to need it just to get through this all. It's a complete and utter nightmare being made to work when you have bad mental health. It's not right, it's not nice and yet the government don't seem to understand or give a damn about my situation.
I am now faced with the terrible situation of having to find a job in the next 4 weeks or else probably loose everything - my partner, our rented home and my dog!! Have asked my older sister for help as she offered it a while ago, but now she's backtracking and saying that she can only afford a one-off payment of half of our next month's rent! Makes me mad as she is making quite a lot of money and can afford to take holidays, but not afford to help out her desperate brother!! Her husband (my brother in law) is a university lecturer and must be making well over £30k a year so this makes it even worse in my eyes. It has made me feel very let down, very let down indeed. My parents have helped pay the rent for the last 3 months, but I simply cannot keep asking them for help as it's not like they are loaded and I feel very guilty. So, I have to bite the bullet now and try and find work - will probably end up working in a pikey factory with a load of bullies and this will obviously make things much worse for me health wise. Believe me, I've worked alongside some real morons before it seems like factories and warehouse breed this type of moron.
Wish me luck, I am going to need it just to get through this all. It's a complete and utter nightmare being made to work when you have bad mental health. It's not right, it's not nice and yet the government don't seem to understand or give a damn about my situation.