Are you male or female

Are you male or female


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Darker Than Black

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My parents are always like pressuring me to get a gf or something in university..maybe I'll nv get one in uni cuz I can't talk to azn girls :(...idk..maybe somebody on SPW, or some other dating site...ahhhhh, damn it :(..this is so lame
 
Guys my own age almost never express interest in me.

I find that extremely hard to believe...

Anyway to all, I am Dronee the Drone. I don't have SA per se, but I typed something (can't remember) on google and landed on these forums, found I can relate to many of the things here.

I'm more of a Jack of all trades or at least have an interest in them, but definitely not a master of anything. Pleased to make your acquaintance.
 

Why

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When it comes to dating and general leadership, I agree. Girls just have to sit back and accept some guy's invitation to go out to eat or something. Guys are forced to do all the gruntwork most of the time. Guys are also expected to be strong and manly and not show weaknesses which I assume is an absolute nightmare.

However, there are some things that I think affect girls more when dealing with SA. For example, I noticed girls tend to gossip much more harshly than guys do, which can really spike the anxiety/paranoia levels. Guys do gossip, but it's usually along the lines of "he sucks, man. He can't _____ for shit" and the other guys say "yeah" and it's over. Girls will elaborate on every detail and many times they're also not as critical of guys as they are of other girls. It makes girls with SA afraid to bond cause we don't know what the other girls are saying when we're not there.

I think body image also affects the SA of girls much more than it does with guys, for a plethora of reasons.

true when girls are in groups, they are expected to talk more but guys wit SA feel just as uncomfortable


life would be good if girls were supposed to be aggressive in dating/asking out :rolleyes:
 

Flowers-Of-Bloom

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Female, AvPD, DPD.

My problem in the dating department is the fact that guys DO ask me out. I kind if wish they wouldn't. Dating is just...
...Do not want.
To me, rejecting men is very difficult. I really hate it.

girls with SA have it much ezier

No.
 
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Apple Strudel

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I am a female and I suffer from anixety disorder, ocpd and suspected ADD.

I got diagnosed from a mental hospital so I can safely say I have an official diagnosis.
 
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