Pirate from the North Pole
i started my first full time job a few months ago, and dont get how people can talk so much. I feel rather left out! Does anyone else feel the same way?
I work with 2 women and they have bags of confidence (too much if u ask me) and joke with eachother about stupid stuff, it feels so painful to be with them. I cant quit i need the money and want to gain confidence
Unless it's a job where you should be seen as social and talkative, I think you should try to not worry too much about it. I'm also the silent one at work, and even though they had to get used to it a bit in the beginning, everyone seems ok with it now. I think the important is to be nice in general, and to do a bit of casual conversation once in a while just to communicate and answer the conversation when they are talking directly to you, but other than that, you're there to work, not to chat.