Anyone else think sex is disgusting?
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Scandic123
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Generally no, but sometimes, I do think it's disgusting and there is way too much focus on it everywhere.
awkwardamanda
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I actually think sex without a condom is disgusting. I don't think I could ever do it. I really don't ever want to be pregnant so if I ever do have sex again, I will need to be really careful. I couldn't trust just one form of protection. Although, somehow I doubt too many guys in long term relationships would be willing to use condoms their whole lives. But it's not just that. I think even if I or my (hypothetical) partner were sterilized, I'd still be weirded out by it. I also think oral sex is disgusting, regardless of who's doing what.
WaningMoon
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I don't think it's immaute. I think it's some kind of a problem. I also have issues about sex, not exactly these ones but very similar... It's not immature, unless I am also immature lol
I am similar, that probably why I am still single. Who wants to marry a woman that does not like sex, kissing, hugging. All I can see ids the disease's that are exchanged though all these strange behavior. I also consider myself asexual get at the same time I long to be loved but to the physical like of love.
theoutsider
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Sex is awesome when it's done right.
Lonelykitsune
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I recently lost my virginity to a nice lad but I didn't enjoy sex at all really.
For a start it was quite painful. He tried his best to make it as comfortable as he could for me but I wasn't feeling anything but awkwardness. And I don't like oral, giving or receiving.
I felt kind of weird afterwards and ended the relationship because I just can't pretend to enjoy it. He was understanding though.
I honestly think I'd be fine never having sex again and I find it strange how everyone else can be so desperate for it but I just don't care.
For a start it was quite painful. He tried his best to make it as comfortable as he could for me but I wasn't feeling anything but awkwardness. And I don't like oral, giving or receiving.
I felt kind of weird afterwards and ended the relationship because I just can't pretend to enjoy it. He was understanding though.
I honestly think I'd be fine never having sex again and I find it strange how everyone else can be so desperate for it but I just don't care.
Xervello
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Out of curiosity, did the relationship end because he didn't want to give up sex, or because of that and other reasons? Forgive the personal question.
Lonelykitsune
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Well I ended it myself because I assumed he wouldn't want to go without sex forever, even if he said it was ok. Also, I wasn't really feeling anything regarding the whole relationship. Like he was nice and I did like spending time with him, but there was no attachment/love/whatever on my part.
Maybe I should have given it more time as we were only going out a month, but I felt it unfair as he seemed to becoming more interested in me than I was in him so it was better for both of us if I just ended it so he could find someone else.
He was good looking as well, I feel like there's something wrong with me.
Xervello
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Well if you weren't really feeling anything for him maybe that's why the sex felt awkward? Myself, I have issues with physicality, touching, even personal space, so I understand the comfortability aspect. Even though I probably wouldn't have sex with someone, I'd like to think I'd at least attempt so, barring I trust them. Then again maybe it's just easier to feel that way being a guy. At any rate, I wouldn't let that one relationship/circumstance define things. Chalk it up as experience. Also, as uncomfortable as it is, it's always best to establish a honest dialogue with the person you're with. So there's no misunderstandings or mixed signals.
Tornsoulnz
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I have never had sex. so don't now. I would like to it would be good to find out about it.
But i know i never will.
But i know i never will.
never
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Me; I think it's disgusting. And if we were to refer specifically to genitalia, I find male genitalia to be especially disgusting, haha. But then the other side of me-- my instinctual side, I guess, and I guess the other side is the logical one-- really likes sex and is sexually attracted to males.
When I think about having sex with someone that I actually give a crap about, it's a fantastic thing to me. It's still gross, but it's like it doesn't matter and I desire it. But then I think about it in an empty, disposable, toxic sense and it's just...disgusting.
I'm probably sounding very contradictory and corny, haha, but that's how this stuff is with me.
When I think about having sex with someone that I actually give a crap about, it's a fantastic thing to me. It's still gross, but it's like it doesn't matter and I desire it. But then I think about it in an empty, disposable, toxic sense and it's just...disgusting.
I'm probably sounding very contradictory and corny, haha, but that's how this stuff is with me.
Yeah.
YES! I really do think sex is disgusting and always have way before I knew what the hell asexual was. And just like everything else I've found on the internet whenever I look up something I feel is strange about me, I'm like "HOLY CRAP, THERE'S A NAME FOR IT. I am not alone!"
But I'm not sure if you can be asexual and have a committed relationship. I have had a boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and explained to him from the beginning about my extremely low libido. After giving him persistent fair warning, he assured me over and over that it wouldn't be an issue. But I love him very very much and try to have sex with him as often as I can. I only do it for him because I don't want him cheating because he can't get what he needs from me, but I definitely hate it every single time.
But I'm not sure if you can be asexual and have a committed relationship. I have had a boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and explained to him from the beginning about my extremely low libido. After giving him persistent fair warning, he assured me over and over that it wouldn't be an issue. But I love him very very much and try to have sex with him as often as I can. I only do it for him because I don't want him cheating because he can't get what he needs from me, but I definitely hate it every single time.
It's disgusting and I love it!