Vampayah88
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He knows I'm not materialistic or such a pretentious person, but couldn't he think of anything thoughtful to do instead of getting me a bunch kitches cheap stuff? he even asked me a couple of days later why im not wearing his rings. I mean really?
In my opinion this is not about taste, its just about getting someone the cheapest and kischiest thing u could get, in a hurry,one day after their birthday(its not like he was even busy, he had plenty of time). It just makes me wonder if maybe he thinks im not worth it..Like I said, a simple flower wouldve been better. I didn't say im going to dump him, just..this left me feeling strange and not in a good way.
I think you posted too little info about the whole relationship, except the poorly chosen birthday gift issue. I wonder why this reason is enough by itself to dump your bf, to me it seems like your attachment to him is not so strong generaly. He might simply have different or not so good taste, but I aren´t there more important criteria to judge?
You get someone a gift you think they'd really like, but when they get it they're left thinking "Umm...yeah".
I tend to agree with this post.
My partner and I have been together a long time now. I'm starting to run out of ideas for her birthday. She is a typical female shopaholic so nothing is going to surprise her.
I'd prefer to give her money and just say "Here buy what you really want"
But I guess that is really insensitive and uncharming!!
We've been together for 4 months, but been really good friends for more than a year before we got together. Last year he didnt get me anything on my bday and avoided me all day saying he was sick(i still don't believe him). This Christmas he got me something nice that he saw I liked when we were out.