Advice for first date?

kristina303

kristina303

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Should I be worried because I am freaking out. He texts me every single day around 8pm. It's now 10:30pm and I haven't heard from him. We're supposed to go on another date tomorrow. I'm worried that he changed his mind and doesn't like me anymore. I messaged him on fb and told him I hoped everything was okay because I haven't heard from him. I haven't gotten a reply. :/
 
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Nathália

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kristina303 said:
Should I be worried because I am freaking out. He texts me every single day around 8pm. It's now 10:30pm and I haven't heard from him. We're supposed to go on another date tomorrow. I'm worried that he changed his mind and doesn't like me anymore. I messaged him on fb and told him I hoped everything was okay because I haven't heard from him. I haven't gotten a reply. :/
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That's hard to predict, but I hope that everything goes smooth Kristina and you get your date. ♥
It can be other things, it can be hard to not worry and be calm about it, Hopefully goes well for you though.
 
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satstrn

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I just went on a first date tonight and I'm feeling all the same things you are. I like her but I have no idea what she thought. I want to ask her to go out again but when is it too early vs too late to ask for a second date and how do I know if she even really enjoyed herself? Its exhausting I'll tell you that.
 
kristina303

kristina303

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So tonight he hung out with me and some of my friends. I was kinda annoyed with him. He didn't do anything wrong I just felt like every time he talked no one knew what he was talking about and no one liked him and it bothered me. Idk if it's just me being insecure or what. I've never brought a guy I liked around my friends. But yesterday we went bowling and I had such a good time. Ughhh idk what's wrong with me.
 
dottie

dottie

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you should really think about why. make a list of reasons you want to hang out with him and another with reasons you don't want to hang out with him. then be honest with yourself. don't string someone along for shallow, selfish reasons. you could hurt him. if you care about that sort of thing.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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kristina303 said:
Nothing really. I just felt like no one liked him.
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Does that change your perception of the way you see him?

Perhaps you can ask your friends about what they thought of him, and they can give you an answer when he's not around, which will bring out the truth.
 
dottie

dottie

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so, you liked him... but now you don't just because other people weren't crazy about him. true blue.
 
kristina303

kristina303

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MikeyC said:
Does that change your perception of the way you see him?

Perhaps you can ask your friends about what they thought of him, and they can give you an answer when he's not around, which will bring out the truth.
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Okay I'll do that.
 
InvisaLady

InvisaLady

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Rembrandt Broam said:
What matters is whether you like him.

You should still ask your friends what they thought of him. If it turns out that you're right, and they didn't like him, ask them why.
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I have to agree.
Although, if I had friends I really would not care if they did not like the guy I was seeing.
 
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