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  1. mndigi

    I don't greet my neighbours

    I usually don't greet my neighbours out of social anxiety, and later feel terribly guilty about it. I probably come across as very rude. Just a few minutes back, one of my neighbours was in the same elevator as me, and I kept on looking at the wall, not speaking a word. Another day, I rang my...
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    My shoulders shrivel up as if I am anxious when I am standing with arms at my side

    Hi, Sometimes, in fact a lot of times, when I am out in the public, and I am standing with my hands to my sides, I feel like my shoulders get hunched and shrink upwards, as they would if one is very anxious. But they happen to me even if I don't feel anxious as far as I can tell. But once it...
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    Identify with the film "The butterfly effect"

    Have you watched this film? It struck an emotional chord with me because it showed how things which happen in your childhood can shape your future. After watching it I wished I could go back to portions of my life which I didn't like, but unlike Ashton Kutcher not just change them, but live them...
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    Any one else enraged by people staring at you?

    This must be very common amongst us socialphobics. I sometimes feel/find people staring at me in a judgmental or mocking manner. This obviously angers me to no end. I feel like whacking their faces off and teaching them a lesson which their parents didn't - not to stare at people! If you feel...
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    Anyone else have physical ailments from being socialphobic?

    I have immense lower back ache and weakness since the start of my adulthood. The doctor said it was because I didn't play much in my childhood so my muscles are weak. I didn't play because other kids used to brutally mock me. So my SP has caused me this big physical ailment. Any one else face a...
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    Are you afraid of members of the opposite sex liking you?

    I am a guy, and maybe I look a little cute or maybe I look like a goof. But the thing is, sometimes when I am out, I find girls and women looking at me. I don't know whether they find me cute or are looking at me as a spectacle. But I assume the former (have done so since 18 before which I used...
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    A sci-fi story for us socialphobics

    Has any one read "Stranger in paradise" by Isaac Asimov? It's a short science-fiction story by Isaac Asimov. Its ending is touching and beautiful, and at the same time sad, for us social-phobics (though it concerns autism, and the planet Mercury).
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    I dress like a loser because I am afraid to look good

    I tend to wear the most plain looking clothes, even stupid looking clothes, like a standard long shirt pulled out and trousers. I feel ashamed, anxious and shy to wear clothes that I have been said to look good in, like T-shirts, or one short shirt which I have which apparently has a "good...
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    Do you have trouble driving/learning to drive because of SA?

    Hi, Do you have trouble learning to drive/driving because of social consciousness? Sometimes I can barely even walk because of my social consciousness. For example, sometimes my posture becomes stiff as I am too conscious to even look left or right. When I look back on it, there have been...
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    Guys, are you intimidated by fashionable girls?

    Share if you are. I used to be a lot. Which made me pass over a lot of things and stay at home. Now it makes me regret missing out on them. Though now I can manage to be a fairly more comfortable.
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